JNB:
. . . Norm means just that, the way somthing is NORMALLY done, not an equivlent to a Canon law that has to be 100% followed. . . .
Not exactly, but in this sense. Canon law uses the term “norm” differently than common usage and with some precise meanings. But I do think this sense of “normally done” might correspond to what the Institutio Generalis Missalis Romani calls “tradita praxi Ritus romani” or “the traditional practice of the Roman Rite.”
But the word “norm” is used with ambigious or unclear meaning in some documents as written or translated into English. So I can understand a measure of confusion. Each document needs to be carefully read to distinguish among what must be done as a matter of obedience to the law, what should be done as a matter of prudence or “best practice,” and what may be done.
Yet, as the code of canon law and canonists use the term “norm,” it does not refer to the customary, usual or typical practice in a community. Generally, it is some law, rule, ordinance, decree, or other act of power, by which a competent legislator or administrator intends to bind the faithful so that they are obliged to obedience. It may also be a required method of acting or proceeding according to a law or laws.
The usual practice of a community is called a “custom.” Some customs are contrary to the law, and others, under certain circumstances, can attain the force of law (cc. 23 -28).
Frequently the code uses the terms, “according to the norm(s) of law” or “according to the norm of canon nnnn.” Canon 95 §1 also describes “Rules of order (Ordines) are rules ( regulae) or norms to be observed. . . .” ( sunt regulae seu normae quae servari debent . . . ) From this use of language, it should be concluded that the legislator has made norm equivalent with rule. It is not a discretionary observance but an obligatory observance.
The legislator makes it clear that the canons of the code have been promulgated so that they are to be followed as the law of the Church. Under certain circumstances, certain competent authority can dispense from certain laws.
Again, this is not always the case in documents outside the code.
JNB:
Anyways, the Vaticans CDF stated in 3 letters to the US bishops that people who kneel for communion are not to be considered or disobideint, end of discussion.
CDF is the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Perhaps you were you thinking of CDW? (A shorthand for the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments.) The alphabet soup of the Roman curia can throw us all for a loop sometimes. There are some councils at the curia but CDW is a congregation. There are some differences between the two.
ncjohn:
I personally do not want to become a stumbling block to my brother’s faith, but would rather carry my cross to prevent that from occuring. That being said, I will question nobody’s motivation for doing so, nor will I judge myself more or less pious for my decision. I leave room for respectful disagreement while praying for unity.
Thank you for stating this so eloquently, John. You certainly speak for me as well, and more importantly, I think you speak with the mind of the Lord for his Church.