The root of self-absorption

[PelagiathePenit]

Love her. All she talks about is her, her, and her.
She gets enclosed with her problems.
She will talk to any and everyone about her problems as if we do not have worries of her own.
I think she exaggerates issues to get attention.
I think the real problem from living with her so long, she cannot handle pain or sit with her emotions.
Once something triggers pain or sadness, she calls everyone and talks to everyone about, instead of experiencing it.
She does not know who she is because she is always looking for others for approval or the right thing to do.
Ask for advice.
Does not take nor listen.
I can tell she wants to do things her own, not necessarily bad, but she does not have the confidence to do it.
You cannot please everyone she has not learned that.
It is very sad, until she learns that she will never be happy.
She never stands up for herself ever.
The way she allows people to yell and manipulate her is pitiful
She will settle for any guy who gives her attention.
What does she want from a man?
Nothing other than his attention
She has no preference - SO PASSIVE - things are always happening to her

 

[Polyphony]

Is there something here meant to be a point of discussion?

 

[sticknstring73]

This sounds like you are in a tough spot with someone. If at all possible, give yourself a break from this person. It ain’t easy, but it must be done.

Peace. God bless you.

 

[flower_lady]

Now go and get you a piece of paper and I’ll bet you can think of at least 5 or 10 things that are wrong with you. If you love her help her out. Be truthful and tell her what you just told us. Say and do things that will make her feel good about herself and It would not hurt to suggest that she see a psychologist. However, don’t spent to much time with her if she is not willing to help herself. I’ll pray for her. God bless you both.