The Sexual State. How a rolling revolution is destroying Lives

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Like I said, a good chance.

And king Henry married several times and knew what the vows were about
 
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FloridaCatholic said:
Why shouldn’t divorce be easy? Some women are being physically abused and need an out ASAP
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I agree if a woman is in an abusive situation she should get out as soon as possible, not waiting until divorced, just go and get help, but with divorce as easy as it is women who are not in abusive relationships are deserting their families and I know some who regretted that quick get out decision when looking in hindsight.
 
Is there such a thing as a relationship that isn’t abusive though? Doesn’t abuse happen in every marriage to some degree?
 
FloridaCatholic said:
Is there such a thing as a relationship that isn’t abusive though? Doesn’t abuse happen in every marriage to some degree?
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Nonsense. Abuse does not happen in every marriage.

I would think that all couples have arguments now and then, upset each other now and then, disagree on things, but that isn’t abuse, that’s just normal interaction between two people who lives are intimately entwined.
 
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Reason logically from this premise and here is what you get:
  • Form a lifelong plan for cooperating with the one person who will co-parent with you. That is the institution formerly known as “marriage.”
  • Only have sex with the person you are married to.
  • Stay married unless someone does something really awful.
  • Don’t attempt a “remarriage.”
  • Be nice to your spouse, so he or she can put up with you.
 
Hmm. Well every one I personally know who is married was abused.

Maybe I need to find more people to be friends with
 
FloridaCatholic said:
Is there such a thing as a relationship that isn’t abusive though? Doesn’t abuse happen in every marriage to some degree?
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No. Absolutely not. There is a difference between disagreements and abuse. Some people will claim they are being abused when the only thing happening is they are in a disagreement with their spouse.
FloridaCatholic said:
Hmm. Well every one I personally know who is married was abused.

Maybe I need to find more people to be friends with
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Really? They all were abused in the past by someone else or are being abused now by their husbands?
 
Most of the people I know who had failed marriages did not have abuse in their marriage but there was rampant infidelity.
 
Wives and husbands both abused.

And infidelity is a form of abuse
 
hmm. interesting.
FloridaCatholic said:
And infidelity is a form of abuse
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Yes, it is abuse, but not necessarily an abuse that should always lead to divorce, if both parties are willing to work on repairing their marriage.
 
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And now, people don’t know how to have meaningful relationships. This is better? No, 100% no. The CDC is telling us there’s an STD epidemic going on in the US now.
 
Wow. I learned that decades ago. That sounds like a very good way to go about it.
 
They exist! I promise. Marriage isn’t a constant state of bliss but I am in a very loving, supportive marriage. My husband is everything to me and I am everything to him. Can’t imagine a better 21+ years. Nearly every couple we know has divorced. It’s hard to see the destruction of marriages all around us. But strong, happy marriages really can be a reality. 🙂
 
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