First of all, am I the only one who finds the phrasing about woman’s “subservience to man” in the original quoted article, to be a distortion of the Church’s real teaching of the fundamental equality of the sexes and relationship of mutual service between man and woman? You know, I’m not entirely uncomfortable with the idea of the headship of men and women having a complementary role. But I don’t think this “subservience” phrasing captures the truth.
Second, about Saint Paul saying that women’s heads should be covered: did anyone ever reflect that this had a great deal to do with cultural norms of his time? QUOTE]
That’s the main thing that bothered me about the article. His word choice seems so…negative. My understanding was that men and women were made to be more complementary, or different but equal in dignity, whereas the article’s wording and connotations seems to point to a very lopsided balance, which I think is very dangerous.
I think a lot of people forget that you can’t just completely remove any writing from its context. Here, that means remembering the culture, current events of the time, etc. Without the anchor of context, words lose their meaning.
NeelyAnn;5938708 said:
**Restoring Catholic Identity **
Although the veil is a sign of subservience to man, many modern women ignore the feminine dignity that it also signifies. Indeed, no religious institution in the world holds women in such high esteem as the Holy Catholic Church, for it was through a woman, Our Blessed Mother, that the gates of heaven were opened to us wretched sinners. It is for this reason that we honor Mary as Mediatrix of all graces, as well as in special devotions such as the Holy Rosary, and even in the Canon of the Holy Mass.
Another example of how the wording was very peculiar. I believe I understand the point he was trying to make, but the wording makes it sound like some corporation’s propoganda. Reminds me of a joke I heard, saying that some (certainly not all, please don’t get angry) Americans seem to feel they can make more borderline racist jokes and say “nah, it’s not racist. I’ve got a black president!”. This paragraph struck me as, “nah, it’s not sexist. I honour the Virgin Mary!”.
Not that those who promote and use veils/headcoverings necessarily agree with the tone of the quoted article, but when that tone does get associated with things like the wearing of headcoverings, or associated with anything at all for that matter, it’s understandable for people to want to back away from it. People don’t like feeling (note, I said
feeling) like they’re being told they were born a girl so they’re worth less than a boy, or that if you don’t do what those girls are doing you aren’t as good and pure and holy. People don’t like feeling judged like that. Delivery of a message like this has to be more careful, or it will only drive people away, which, I had thought, was the** opposite** of what was desired…