The sinners’ prayer is simply an evangelistic tool to help someone who may not know how to pray to form the words of repentance and ask Christ to be their Lord and Savior. The scenario should go something like this:
- You present the Gospel of Christ to a sinner. You lay the claims of God in front of them and confront them (nicely) with their need for forgiveness and reconcilation with God, etc etc.
- You then ask that person if they understand this and if they would like to repent of their sins and ask Christ to be their Savior. If the person says yes, you ask them if they would like to pray for forgiveness and ask the Lord to save them.
- If they do not know what to say or how to pray, you lead them in the sinners prayer.
- After the prayer, you assure them that if they have been truly repentant, then God does forgive their sins and welcomes them as one of his children (or some such words, similar to what the priest does in confession).
- Now, you encourage that person to find a Church, become involved in parish life, and begin reading the Bible, usually starting with the Gospel of John.
- As much as possible, you should follow up with that person in discipleship to help them grow in the faith.
The problem with most approaches to using the sinner’s prayer is that a person is left with the understanding that all they need to do is pray that prayer and all is taken care of. However, the person needs to then be discipled and this is where many people fail in their evangelization of others. They go on to someone else and leave the other person behind to fend for themselves and very often that person never continues on in the faith, never grows, and often falls back into the same sinful lifestyle they were living.
The sinners’ prayer is a tool and like other tools it must be used correctly and not as a cure-all and not as the final test of one’s salvation. Nor is it the correct tool for every situation you encounter.
++Mark