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Tommy999
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Hi PRmerger,I’m not sure what my friend Kathleen meant by that, so I won’t answer for her, but that does segue into a question that I have: does your church permit divorce and re-marriage?
In short, No, or at least that is my understanding. In my case, both of us are Christians and our marriage is the first (and only) one for both of us.
Taken from ag.org/top/Beliefs/topics/relations_09_div_remarr.cfm
Divorce: The Assemblies of God discourages divorce with strong teaching on the sanctity and permanence of marriage. This stand is obviously more stringent than the permissive attitude of society in general and the judicial system’s interpretation of the laws of the land. The strong feeling of the church against divorce grows out of the clear statement in the Bible that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and that no human being should separate two persons joined together in holy matrimony (Matthew 19:6). Yet the reality of divorce forces the church to draw from Scripture guidelines for instances when God’s ideal is not maintained.
Scripture regulates divorce as it pertains to Christians by providing guidelines for two separate groups: marriages in which both partners are Christians; and marriages where only one spouse is a Christian. In the first case, where both husband and wife are professing Christians, neither party is ever to seek a divorce (1 Corinthians 7:10, 11). In the second case (the mixed marriage) the Christian husband or wife should never initiate or seek a divorce from an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:12-14). There are only two exceptions that allow for this initiative. A Christian may divorce a spouse only when his/her partner is repeatedly committing the sin of adultery (Matthew 5:32; 19:9), or if the spouse refuses to live with him/her and departs (abandonment) (1 Corinthians 7:15). Both exceptions present the believer with an option; but never a mandate. A better course whenever grace enables it is to forgive marital infidelity and seek healing in the marriage. This choice is especially desirable in cases where children would be further hurt and the family destroyed through divorce. Abandonment (a long-term physical withdrawal from the home with neglect of the responsibilities, support, and duties required of one partner within a marriage) would also prove the spouse’s sinful conduct and could eventually allow for divorce.