Setting aside the celebrating death vs eternal life issue, the thing I struggle with most is the me, me, me attitude of this holiday (just like at Christmas and Easter) with the secularization of the holiday. The kids expect candy and want more every year. I have 3 young kids and do let them dress up - as animals or something I feel is ok. This year one is a monkey, one a bat and one an angel. We only let them go to so many houses so as to limit the amount they receive. Our parish does do a trick-or-treat at a local nursing home and there is talk about reviving the children’s Halloween party. Which I think is a neat idea, and one I’ve been considering doing, in order to bring more meaning to the day than just dressing up and getting candy.