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Sarpedon
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Why do you stop at the level of parent to child? Didn’t the parents come from parents? Didn’t those parents come from parents? Doesn’t this go back to when life began? Since it began through the interactions of non-living things and forces, can’t we say that life was caused by those things? What caused those physical things and forces?Yes, it is true that the Universe contains many causal chains. But from that it does not follow that the Universe itself is part of a causal chain.
Causal chains are only defined for individual events, but not for collections of events. It makes perfect sense to establish causal chains for us as individuals - the procreative acts of our parents. From that it does not follow that such a causal chain can even be defined for the whole humanity.
Since love is selflessness, it must have an “object”, although that object need not necessarily exist in a physical sense. The object does not need to exist right then to recieve the love, because love denotes a disposition and choice of the giver.That is very weird, to say the least. An act of “love” without any “object” is sheer nonsense. How is the love of a “child-to-be” is different from the love of a “book-to-be-written”? In both cases one can love the “idea”. But the idea is not the same as the instantiated reality.
Look at it this way- suppose a person wants to have children for entirely selfless reasons. Even though he is willing to endure much inconvenience and hassle in having them, he freely decides to have them with no thought of himself.
He later finds out that he is infertile, and can never have children.
How would you describe the choice made by this person? There was never any existent person to recieve his selflessness.
I would say that the person’s choice, by virtue of its selflessness, is love. Even though no person ever existed to recieve his love, the important thing is that the man himself chose to love in the first place.
If you truly love the idea of dinner, then your selflessness will move you to create it, so that it can recieve your love. If your house burns down and you can’t create it, you still made the choice to love.And in what way is that meaningful? Can one “love” the dinner which is not cooked yet? No, you can love the idea of it, you can imagine it, you can expect it, etc. But until the dinner is made, you can only love the “idea” of that dinner. If that love is manifested in actual cooking the dinner, then and only then can you start loving your creation.
Your love for the dinner is the same before and after you cook the dinner (presumably in a different, safer house). The difference between the two different situations is that when the object of your love is nonexistent, your love moves you to create it.
If someone who desires to have a baby out of selflessness is prevented from doing this by infertility, can we still say that she had love? How can we describe her? Is she rendered incapable of love by circumstance?