americancatholic.org/e-News/FriarJack/fj041406.asp
scborromeo.org/ccc/p123a12.htm
Both of these links deal with the question of hell.
Both admit, that no one has any concept how serious a choice we make when we reject God…and die in mortal sin.
But we have to start taking this notion very seriously…Jesus told us the gate is narrow, and we need to make a serious conversion if we wish to be happy one day with Him in heaven.
But we daily make choices to move away from Him, because we are not God-centered, rather self-centered. If we are all to move to become saints…people in heaven…we need to become more God-centered without reservation or excuse or procrastination. We don’t know when we will die…“death will come like a thief in the night.”
Asking why we as mortals should have to make this choice…is something possibly an immature person or a teen would say…wake up and smell the coffee…no one else can make that choice but yourself. There is no going around it…we are all destined to die, but how we will spend eternity is all up to us and God’s great mercy.
Why is it a surprise to someone who is baking a cake…
If they have all the ingredients to make a cake, but they leave something very important out, like eggs or flour, or baking powder…that the cake doesn’t become a cake, or forget to put it in the oven itself.
The same is true for us as who were created by God, to know Him, love Him, and to serve Him, and to one day be happy in heaven…and we end up in hell because we chose not to love Him, or choose not to know Him or forget about serving Him…and still we expect heaven??? You need all parts in your life to merit the inheritance that was freely given to us, when Jesus died on the cross for us, rising from the dead. Pray on it.