Jesus is the Christ. “Christ” is how you say “Messiah” in Greek. The “Messiah” is the One who is prophesied to fulfill the prophesies in the Old Testament Scriptures (the Hebrew Tanakh). Jesus must be the fulfillment of ALL of these Scriptures, otherwise He is not the Christ and Christianity is not a legitimate successor to Judaism.
Open your Bible to all those books in the OT you’ve never thought were important until now. In Ezekiel chapters 40-44, that prophet gives the description of a new Temple to be built after the destruction of the original one. A Second Temple was indeed built after the Israelites returned from exile, but that one cannot be the one that Ezekiel describes, because as he prophesied:
[BIBLEDRB]Ezekiel 43:4-7[/BIBLEDRB]
But the Second Temple, the one built by Herod,
was destroyed in AD 70 by the Romans. Because God had promised through Ezekiel that the new Temple would stand
FOREVER, the Second Temple was
NOT the fulfillment of Ezekiel’s prophecy.
Shortly before Jesus is crucified in the year 33 AD, He says:
[BIBLEDRB]Mark 14:58[/BIBLEDRB]
Again, the Second Temple was destroyed in 70 AD and it has never been rebuilt. The Scripture here specifically says that the new Temple is one that Jesus will construct. Jesus did not build an earthly Temple after rising from the grave. Instead, He sends the Holy Spirit upon Mary and the Apostles and creates the Church. The Church is the new Temple, a Temple not made by hands.
But there is something else. The Holy Spirit
had already come upon Mary. The Holy Spirit came upon Her at the Annunciation, when She conceived Jesus in Her womb:
[BIBLEDRB]Luke 1:35[/BIBLEDRB]
Now, look at Ezekiel again:
[BIBLEDRB]Ezekiel 44:1-3[/BIBLEDRB]
There is no special gate through which only Jesus passed through in the earthly Second Temple. This “gate” is a gate of the Church which only Jesus could ever pass through. Of course, since the new Temple is the Church, it is made of living stones:
[BIBLEDRB]1 Peter 2:5[/BIBLEDRB]
The Gate, then, must be a person. Since only Jesus passes through this Gate, the Gate can only be the womb of the Blessed Virgin Mary. And since no one else can pass through this Gate, Mary must be ever-virgin.
It is that simple. But you desire to make it complicated: You think that because it says “until” that means that at a later time, She must have brought forth other children. Elsewhere the Bible says:
[BIBLEDRB]1 Corinthians 15:25[/BIBLEDRB]
So if you are going to say that Mt 1:25 means that Mary was not ever-virgin, you must also conclude that 1 Cor 15:25 says that Jesus will only be Lord for a little while until His enemies are tidied up, and then He would no longer be Lord. Well, that’s baloney. He will reign forever.
Likewise with Matthew 1:25, which states that Jesus is the first-born son of Mary. That does not mean that there are other children. First-born is a legal term with a specific meaning in the Mosaic law:
[BIBLEDRB]Exod 34:20[/BIBLEDRB]
But if Mary is set aside for a consecrated purpose as part of the new Temple, which She clearly is, then it would be even more sinful to defile Her as it would be to defile some article of the lesser earthly Temples, like say, the Ark of the Covenant, which killed anyone who touched it:
[BIBLEDRB]2 Samuel 6:2-8[/BIBLEDRB]