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ringil said:
So a girl might have ONE WHITE PLAIN thong for ONE outfit? Unless she is a debutante or something- a girl who is always going out in high evening fashion?

So a thong is like a cumbercun for a guy? Only applying to the MOT rare circumstances?

If that is what we are talking about then OK- as a man ignorant of women’s undergarments- maybe in that most select setting it would be fine.
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I hope you hear my humor.

WHO WEARS WHITE??? You can see white through everything. What color is this ONE outfit? If it’s pale in color, white is a terrible choice.Cream would be much better.

Clothing that is of a reasonable price now a days is not properly lined. The second you veer from jean material you are at risk of putting your underwear on display.

Why would you decide what is ok and what isn’t about a topic you claim to be “ignorant” about?

How are panties and a cumberbun in the same category?

Perhaps you should compare them to men’s underwear? I’m utterly appalled by men that wear anything other than boxers. I’m quite particular. There will be no “panties” in the drawers of my husband or children. I’d like to know what ever drove men to wear such feminine underwear in the first place.

NO ONE may claim comfort or appropriate fit underneath suits and such. I refuse to believe such a thing. Especially since they now make women’s underwear in the style of men’s underwear. I find them terribly uncomfy, so I refuse to believe a man could find them more comfortabe than I would.
 
ringil said:
Oh, well I had unchaste relationships before my wife. These women had, like “half thong” things. I don’t know what they are called.

I am outside of my realm here. 😊
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So, you’re saying these UNCHASTE women wore regular underwear? Perhaps you mean a bikini style underwear? How could that be?

Do you see how the style doesn’t mean anything? I know plenty of women who wear thongs, and have only been with their husbands.
 
ringil said:
Im a therapist and certainly don’t seek to close off communication channels with my daughter as she grows, but I don’t want to think that she will be trying to dress sexy. I see too many girls around with inapppropriate clothing on.

Many of the details you have conveyed are totally alien to me. Now I wonder if my wife goes around with other women looing at the underwear evidence through her clothing!!

Women are so confusing!! :eek:
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Women look at each other with a much more critical eye than men do. It’s sort of like the difference between going to a theater production as a normal audience member and going as a set or costume designer. The rest of the audience just takes in the effect as a whole, but when you have to know how it is all done, you tend notice these little technical things in spite of yourself. It’s kind of like that.

If you are a therapist, you know what an asset it is to a girl to have parents who are both providers of structure and real listeners. Still, there are few professions whose lessons are easy to practice on your own family! I’m not saying to rubber-stamp everything your daughter wears, either. Heaven forbid!! I only mean to ask her questions with the presumption that an innocent answer may exist. That way, if her desired end is fine but her means are faulty, you will find her more receptive to your ideas about how she might reach her desired end in an appropriate way. She won’t see you as “Dr. No.”
 
Also, you may never have noticed the existence of panty lines, but I can guarantee they are the subject of endless, fevered discussion among the teenage boys at your daughter’s school!
 
DhuAlQarnayn said:
Also, you may never have noticed the existence of panty lines, but I can guarantee they are the subject of endless, fevered discussion among the teenage boys at your daughter’s school!
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OH STOP (holding hands to ears) these kids just need to cover themselves!

The lack of panty lines could be a topic also.

Boys will talk about what they are presented with, certainly.
 
ringil said:
I can see the padded bra in certain anatomical circumstances for a teen. I still cannot see a thong. I cannot see it as apporopriate. My wife has never worn a thong. I never had a girlfriend who wore one. Maybe the women I was with were tame. 🤷
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ringil said:
Oh, well I had unchaste relationships before my wife. These women had, like “half thong” things. I don’t know what they are called.

I am outside of my realm here. 😊
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So the women you’ve dated are TAME because they didn’t wear thongs even though they were sexually active? :confused:

So basically you’re saying that wearing a thong as an underwear would make a women UNTAME while while actually having pre marital sex wouldn’t?? :confused:

You’re basing a woman’s “tameness” on what type of underwear they choose to wear.

Sir, you need to re-evaluate whatever moral problems you have with woman’s underwear.
 
Thongs and padded bras are just underwear (my 66 y/o mother who has been married to my father for 48 years wears them every day and I don’t think she is doing it to be sexy). Regarding your daughters, be more concerned with what is showing outside and how they are carrying themselves. There’s nothing wrong with a teenage girl wanting to be attractive as long as boundaries are respected.
 
There’s nothing inherently immoral about gals wearing thongs and padded bras.

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DhuAlQarnayn said:
Also, you may never have noticed the existence of panty lines, but I can guarantee they are the subject of endless, fevered discussion among the teenage boys at your daughter’s school!
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I think that’s going a bit far. Snide jokes, but not endless fevered discussion. Conjectures about what they don’t know about the girls around them are what fuel the fevered discussions, which are not endless, because a young man does have to leave time to argue about sports. There is nothing one can do about those, and that is OK. It is good to learn at a young age to ignore those who occupy themselves with puerile debates.
 
EasterJoy said:
I think that’s going a bit far. Snide jokes, but not endless fevered discussion. Conjectures about what they don’t know about the girls around them are what fuel the fevered discussions, which are not endless, because a young man does have to leave time to argue about sports. There is nothing one can do about those, and that is OK. It is good to learn at a young age to ignore those who occupy themselves with puerile debates.
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I have a visual impairment, perhaps that is why I have never seen these panty lines. 🙂
 
PatriceA said:
The funny thing is the thongs still leave panty lines, just different ones.
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It depends on the clothing, on how the underwear is constructed and, to be blunt, where the female’s body has put the padding. Sometimes they don’t, but it is worth it for a woman to know that it is not impossible for a thong to be visible under her clothing, yes.
 
ringil said:
I have a visual impairment, perhaps that is why I have never seen these panty lines. 🙂
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Some people just aren’t in the habit of critiqueing the fit of other people’s clothing. That is hardly a bad thing!!
 
ringil said:
No need to get feisty. 🤷
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Well it’s kind of insulting when you make a comment about women who wear thongs being “untamed.”

…And then especially hypocritical when you turn around and admit that you’ve had inappropriate relationships in the past.

I’ve worn thongs and sexy underwear and padded bras as a teenager but the only man to ever see those was my husband… after we were married.
 
PatriceA said:
The funny thing is the thongs still leave panty lines, just different ones.
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Frankly, I think thongs are disgusting and yeah, you’re right, they sometimes do leave different panty lines. When they don’t, it appears as if the woman isn’t wearing any underwear at all, which apparently is a choice for some women. At least the ones in Hollywierd. I don’t wear old fashioned granny pants but if I’ve given a choice between looking like I’m wearing underwear or looking like I’m going commando, I’ll always choose to look like I’ve got a pair of underwear on. 👍
 
I see no problem with a little bit of makeup back when I was in 7th and 8th grade blue eyeshadow was the in makeup item and my mother let me wear it to school she picked her battles nothing wrong withe thong underwear as long as it is worn under clothing and padded bras nothing to be upset over and as other people on here has advised let your parents do the parenting and you may continue to be the best sibling that anyone can have.
 
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