Yes, we are good friends. And now I have made another good friend in the SSPX. The point of the story is that there are many good men on both sides of this issue. I’m speaking about the priests and bishops involved, including the Holy Father.
While they may not voice many opinions in public, they have opinions, feelings, concerns, fears, desires, hopes and perceptions of events that we are not privy to until we share with them, both side.
I don’t think this young man (young compared to me) was just telling me what he thought I wanted to hear, just because I was sitting next to him on a plane wearing a Franciscan habit. People do that. But I did not get this sense from him. I got a sense that he had met someone who understood his perspective from the inside, in this case, a religious.
Often, we religious and priests do not always say the same thing from the pulpti or in the seminary classroom that we share with each other. It would be inappropriate. It may even confuse people or muddle the waters even more.
Since we do not have the Holy See onlie (on CAF) of the SSPX priests, we tend to assume to know what they are thinking, what they want, what they are willing to do, or what they are going to do.
Speaking as my holy Father Francis would speak, I encourage everyone to stop assumming to know the heart and mind of another. A man’s heart and mind are the domain of the Holy Spirit, not the domain of man. To invade that domain is a sin of pride. It is an attempt to be God, omniscient. In charity, we must limit ourselves to describe what we see, without making inferences about those whom we see.
Our holy Father Francis said something that applies in this situation. I shared it with my friend, Rev. SSPX (not his real name). “Even when a prelate asks you to do something that you believe is less than what you know ought to be done, offer it up as a sacrifice and obey, for this is holy obedience that is pleasing to God.” We had a great discussion about this.
A trip from Miami to St. Paul allows you lots of time for conversation. Anyway, I also met another SSPX priest a few years ago. He was arrogant and angry. But we don’t judge people by their feelings. Feelings are like sleep. They are part of the human condition and they come and go with a good rest.
By the way Marin, I’ll be in your neck of the woods in August for a chapter.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF