i got 2 separate answers - my attorney said a week and his attorney said 2 months…
I’m sorry you are going through a divorce mariam, you have my prayers. It’s so sad, I see so many marriage problems on here. I wish you well my friend.
thank you… although when i read some of the posts here, i am so happy now becos i see so many people who are so happily married and have the right values, that i know that i was right and i still have a chance at a normal life…
Oh you poor dear Mariam. I’ve read your posts, you seem like a beautiful person and I’m sure you will have a normal life, you deserve that. I’m sorry he is making difficult. Depression can be deblitating, if you feel yourself slipping…is there someone you can talk to? Have you been seeing a priest? Please get plenty of rest and eat well, go for walks if you can. I know just the fresh air alone can help. I’ve been there. You have people who love you in your life I’m sure, focusing on them can help.
I shall include you in my prayers.Mariam, that would explain why your attorney says two weeks and his says two months. I know from my own atty that we could have delayed it quite a bit by not pushing the judge to sign it and have it filed. Ask your attorney to make an effort to hurry it through - where I live, the atty can find out it’s signed then personally deliver the papers from the judge to the place where it is filed so that it happens as quickly as possible.
thank you so much for this suggestion of your momof8, i finally got the papers signed from him today and filed it with the court… my attorney was right… i asked the clerk and she said that the judge would sign it in 3-4 days and i could come in personally next week and get it filed on the same day if i stand in line…