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TaylorDonBarret
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Argument against it (1): marriage requires a lot of time and effort. being a Priest requires a lot of time and effort. therefore, one cannot be both married and a Priest and give both the amount of time and effort each of them require.
Argument against it (2): God is calling men to be Priests and God provides all the grace they need in order to fulfill their vocation as a celibate Priest. therefore, the Priestly shortage is not effected by celibacy but by an unwillingness on the part of men to hear and answer the call of God on their life.
On the Contrary…
Response to argument (1): yes, being a Priest requires a lot of time and effort. but so do many professions. for example, being an obstetrician or neurosurgeon (or a policeman or a teacher). yet we fully realize that such people can be both excellent at their profession and excellent as a husband and father as well. the fact it, every married man must work a job. this takes time and effort. while being a Priest may require a bit more time and effort than some professions (though being a Priest requires less time and effort than some other professions, too), nonetheless, it is proven everyday around the world in Eastern Catholic, Eastern Orthodox, and Protestant churches just how amazingly, brilliantly, wonderfully effective married Priests and Pastors can be.
Response to argument (2): yes, God calls men and gives them the grace they need to fulfill their calling. yes, the problem is a lack of willingness on the part of men to hear and answer this call. at the same time, however, we live in a highly sexualized society in which men are taught from a very young age that happiness comes from sexual fulfillment - and thus, there is a certain level of “invincible ignorance” prevalent in society today that prevents men from even considering the idea of Priesthood (despite how strongly God may call them). and it is actually a fact that happiness does come from sexual fulfillment in marriage (key word: “in marriage”). God created man and said “it is not good for him to be alone.” man was designed for woman, and woman for man. while there are certain benefits to Priestly celibacy, there are other benefits to married Priests (such as the ability to speak with personal knowledge and familiarity on matters of love in marriage, raising children, etc.).
Argument against it (2): God is calling men to be Priests and God provides all the grace they need in order to fulfill their vocation as a celibate Priest. therefore, the Priestly shortage is not effected by celibacy but by an unwillingness on the part of men to hear and answer the call of God on their life.
On the Contrary…
Response to argument (1): yes, being a Priest requires a lot of time and effort. but so do many professions. for example, being an obstetrician or neurosurgeon (or a policeman or a teacher). yet we fully realize that such people can be both excellent at their profession and excellent as a husband and father as well. the fact it, every married man must work a job. this takes time and effort. while being a Priest may require a bit more time and effort than some professions (though being a Priest requires less time and effort than some other professions, too), nonetheless, it is proven everyday around the world in Eastern Catholic, Eastern Orthodox, and Protestant churches just how amazingly, brilliantly, wonderfully effective married Priests and Pastors can be.
Response to argument (2): yes, God calls men and gives them the grace they need to fulfill their calling. yes, the problem is a lack of willingness on the part of men to hear and answer this call. at the same time, however, we live in a highly sexualized society in which men are taught from a very young age that happiness comes from sexual fulfillment - and thus, there is a certain level of “invincible ignorance” prevalent in society today that prevents men from even considering the idea of Priesthood (despite how strongly God may call them). and it is actually a fact that happiness does come from sexual fulfillment in marriage (key word: “in marriage”). God created man and said “it is not good for him to be alone.” man was designed for woman, and woman for man. while there are certain benefits to Priestly celibacy, there are other benefits to married Priests (such as the ability to speak with personal knowledge and familiarity on matters of love in marriage, raising children, etc.).
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