Is that right? You know what’s in the hearts of those who come to worship Our Lord in the Eucharist? Once a week we come to worship Our Lord and we got to blah blah blah, huggy kissy, dance and clap, sing happy songs etc etc… and how much time is actually given to God? Give me a break!! Have your fellowship afterwards with coffee and donuts!!!
This is my first post. I initially joined the forum to find answers about doctrines, devotions, etc. However, I was scanning this thread and shocked to see so much negativity regarding the Mass and in different parishes.
I don’t mean to sound obtuse, but this does not seem complicated. It’s Mass people!!! Enjoy it!! I go to Mass to worship Our Lord. As much time is given to God as you want to give.
Every week I am in awe to have the honor to witness the miracle of bread and wine becoming the Body and Blood of Christ. I pray and I give thanks for my church, my family and my community. Sometimes we sing, sometimes not. I do not really notice what people have on their feet. I do notice if there is too much chatting going on, but for the most part, those in my parish are respectful in all aspects of behavior. We do have several alter girls. I didn’t even know this was a controversial issue. I assumed there were not enough boys who were interested, and they allowed girls, who were blessed with giving souls, to help.
I have notice people come and go within our church. It’s interesting that those who go are usually VERY involved in the parish, multiple committees, teaching (CCD, RCIA), It seems to become an ego issue. Soon they don’t like how things are done and become disgruntled. If Canon Law is not being enforced, I can understand that objection. But if your complaint is that the Mass is too casual, too musical, too friendly, though no law is being broken, then by all means leave. However, maybe in the next parish you can relax, worship and not get overly upset and involved in the running of the parish.
I am reminded of a man I work with who is Fundamental Christian. Every time he becomes disillusioned, he leaves his church and starts (!) a new church, soon he becomes unhappy, breaks off and starts a new (?chapter, group, whatever). He stays around for a couple of years, and once again becomes unhappy and leaves the very church he started. And then starts another! It’s crazy. I have watched him repeat this cycle several times. I have decided that there are those who, for one reason or another never going to be satisified.
Like I said before, why does worshiping Our Lord have to be so controversal? Satan must be thrilled.