Pig:
I re-read this post and think I understand you now. What you are saying is, “time,” as we describe it, is nothing more than some extraneous numerality, i.e., a “construct,” that we humans apply to motion, but not necessarily to motion in general. Some motions are fast, some slow. But, it is the general motion of everything in the universe - maybe a sort of averaging - that we perceive as ‘time flowing’. We humans simply apply a consensus to that flowing. “Real time” is what can’t be measured, as it exists only as a universalization of general motion, i.e., the “motion of the universe.” The motion of the universe in general maintains a “flow” of time that is unchangeable no matter what speed individual mobile beings are moving at. So, when we view motion localized, we may be looking at different speeds of motion, and therefore, perceptional differences in actual, real time. Is that about right?
God bless,
jd
yes, I think so, you are nearly as good at writing like this as I am.

Time is like an invented overlay on the universe used simply to obtain ‘co-ordinates’ for sequences of events or motions. But how such a thing could in reality affect a material clock would be a great mystery.
There needs to be a more mechanistic explanation for why clocks traveling at speed record slower measurements than clocks at rest.
If you start with the nature of reality and the ‘Oneness’ of everything, (some people won’t like that), and then decide logically and reasonably that everything has its origin and takes its nature from the expansion of the universe. Before the universe, presumably there was nothing, after the universe expanded there was everything.
So the universe is a closed system which contains everything. The only ‘new’ thing that the universe created when it expanded was the property or quality called ‘direction’.
Everything is now tied to the expansion of the universe and this new property ‘direction’.
A particle in any part of the universe is simply a continuing product of an expanding closed system.
If you imagine the universe expanding as two hands pulling on the ends of a string then where the theoretical direction of both forces of the pulling hands meet in the string there you have created an elementary particle in the universe. The particles very existence is tied to the expansion of the universe.
Since this universe is a closed system you cannot create any extra energy as that would be the same as increasing the expansion rate of the universe, and that is already set as the universe is already in existence.
So if you add energy to a point particle and accelerate it it cannot remain unchanged totally within a closed system. A point particle is unlike a massive object. It cannot radiate away any extra energy as it is the simplest of point particles. All it can do in return for gaining this extra energy in acceleration is to lose proportionally some of its ‘internal motion’ , however you choose to view that substance or thing. The net effect is that the point particles nature loses some motion, this could be seen as an oscillating or resonating nature, which in turn translates upwards into higher more complex particles as a loss or slowing of signal or energy to radiate.
So the more energy you place into a closed system to accelerate a point particle the more internal energy the point particle is forced to lose to conserve the Law of Conservation of Energy.
So we see the reduced rate of radiation in an atomic clock as somehow the reduced flow of time. But of course we have confused an imaginary concept, time, with a material action which is itself bound and constrained to act logically and rationally within a closed system.