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revert_jen
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I’m with you. There’s nothing wrong with electronic giving, but it makes me uncomfortable, and I’m not likely to do it.Makes sense. I’m not putting down electronic giving and it avoids the issue of carrying forward a balance until the check clears, that’s for sure.
I use checks and envelopes, but I try to save trouble at the parish by just giving one check per month. I count the number of Sundays in the month, multiply the weekly amount, and then write one check, since it’s all coming from the same paycheck anyway.
Plus, they never send the baskets to the choir (because generally we’re singing) so it’s easier not to have to remember every week to find an usher. I’ve never been at a parish where everyone had to go up to the alter to drop in their donations. I don’t mean to be insulting, but it sounds like a terrible idea. Probably there is something good about it that I haven’t thought of.
I’ve only been to parishes where they hand baskets around or have baskets on sticks that they poke across the pew. And a couple of times I’ve visited parishes where they apparently just have slots by the door where you put your donation in on the way in or out. I kind of liked it. It allowed people to concentrate on the gifts of bread and wine, and also the hymn.
For second collections, I decide for myself whether I feel I’m called to contribute to that cause, and if so, how much. I always give to the retired priests and religious collections, but don’t feel as called to give to Catholic University. It’s just a personal thing. One of the nice things about the Catholic Church is that although you are required to support the needs of the parish, there are no rules whatsoever as to how you must do it. If you are poor and also can’t help in any more direct way (e.g. weeding the flowerbeds or helping paint something or whatever) your prayers are valuable.
–Jen