As am I. In fact I am old enough to have served Mass for years before Vatican II. Were there abuses, yes, some. The most prevalent one seemed to be that the Priest would go through the Mass quickly, not saying each word clearly if at all in some cases. Although in fairness that usually happened during daily Mass and seldom on Sundays and Holy days. The entire Traditional Mass was so stylized and rigid that there really wasn’t much of an opportunity for many abuses to occur. Now it is so free flowing that it appears that the Priest can really do pretty much what he wants.
I agree that many of the perceived abuses today are actually not what could be truly termed abuses, but on the flip side many are.
I recall very well a Parish that I attended for several months which was administered by a group of Sisters and serviced by a circuit riding Priest from a religious order which shall remain nameless. This Parish was close to the US/Mexico border. The Priest would show up on average once a month. The other times, the good Sisters celebrated the Masses. Not Communion services. Full blown Masses complete with Liturgical vestments and consecrations. When the Priest was there he often allowed the Sisters to do this also and he acted in the role of a server. During consecration corn tortillas were used for the Host as these were considered to truly be the food of the people and closer to what Jesus would have used in His day. And before someone jumps up and says the Bishop should have been notified, he was. He even dropped in and attended from time to time. A truly progressive Parish indeed.
Now I never saw anything that approached that in the Traditional Mass and honestly haven’t seen much that has approached that level in the years since either. But, abuses are much more prevalent under the Ordinary Form now then they were before. And I think that the Vatican has realized that to a degree.
At least that has been my experience. And lest anyone think I am talking aboutt one Parish. No. In my job, I travelled the entire country and a lot of the world, so I saw stufff in a lot of places at a lot of different times.
Now I have been to some truly reverent Ordinary Form Masses. Saint Patricks Church in New Orleans comes to mind. Every Mass celebrated there is truly reverent and totally abuse free. If all Masses these days were celebrated in the same fashion as they are at Saint Patricks there would be no problems at all.