Then I suggest you have been lulled into a false sense of security. Let me try to show you how. It used to be that the Pater Noster prayer was explained to us, at least it was for those of us who were curious about the Latin. Then all of a sudden the vernacular became the standard and today everyone recites it THINKING they actually know it. But really? How many adults know the meaning of “hallowed” or even “trespasses” as it relates to God, for example? How many have such knowledge of pre-Modern English to fully understand the prayer? How many even bother to ask what the prayer means? Life is always filled with questions but everything’s in vernacular now so everything must be okay.

Once more: everything in this Earth is imperfect (except Jesus and His mother). It seems to me, that some people here believe that the past was perfect, and only the change of the liturgy made it wrong.
I have no illusions about the new form, but neither about the old form. For me, that is clear memory (When you will be in my age you will understand that the time of your youth comes up clear, the time of present is in shadow) People went to Church because there was nothing else to do in Sunday morning. In Hungary they sung or listened to quite sentimental vernacular songs, watched each other, slept during the sermon, and the mass itself meant almost nothing for them. They knew that they have to be present before the first ring for the offertory, and many left after the communion of the priest. The Sunday Mass with sermon, reading the Gospel in vernacular and Leo XIII prayer was ground down in 50 minutes. Only a few had missals, and the few of the few were able to use it.
The average is not better today. The new form did not made people better, only kept about a third of the people attend the Sunday Masses in a word, when there are many other things to do in Sunday morning. (less than a 1/50 attends TLM, and according to the study in England about only 40% of those who attend the new form would even try the old form.)
The deeper understanding of the Mass comes not for the majority, but for those who can compare the two forms with open mind and heart.
- prayers which were accidental later additions (Psalm 42, Last Gospel) were left out,
- the penitential aspect of the gathering became emphasized for the laity too,
- the Scriptural reading became balanced and fuller,
- the single ‘Oremus’ was extended again to the traditional prayer of the faithful,
- the offertory process: we bring what is ours, is visible,
- the controversial offertory prayers were changed,
- the communion of the priest and the people was contracted to one unit,
- the closing is logical.
The flow of the new form shows better that the mass is: gathering, learning, offering; sacrifice, meal, mission.
The old form is not abused now, but around half of those who offer the old form are not if full communion with Rome, which is no good, and the old form does not justifies it.
The adversary works, regardless of the form. Neither the new form and the lip service for the unity justifies the abuses. We want to belong to those who are faithful to the magisterium, and reverent in the form.