Tis_Bearself
Patron
I go to several TLMs a year. Here are my suggestions:I have never been to a Traditional Latin Mass - reading this thread makes me want to experience one. Thank you!
- Don’t buy a missal if you’re only going once. Most places have the “little red books” but there are plenty of websites online where you can print out on paper the Order of Mass for the TLM (in Latin and English) and the propers (such as readings, etc) for the day you plan to go. Alternatively, you can skip bringing any pieces of paper and just follow along with what everybody else is doing. That’s what I did the first couple of times as I was more interested in watching the Mass than in trying to follow along in a booklet. If you decide you want to go more regularly, then you can buy your own “little red book” or your own missal.
- If you want to fit in with the other ladies there, you probably want to wear a head covering and an outfit that has sleeves and a skirt. The head covering is not required, but most of the ladies will probably be wearing them. Likewise, some women wear trousers but the majority wear skirts. It is not necessary to dress up in your very best dress and also, you want something you can kneel in for a long time; not every dressy outfit fits that bill. I usually go for a loose cotton or knit skirt with some kind of a top that has sleeves or else I wear a cardigan or other little jacket over a sleeveless top.
- It’s generally easier to go to confession before the day of the Mass. As someone said, the TLM confession line tends to be very long, and the confessions continue during the Mass so you will likely be distracted from appreciating the Mass if you have to stand in line. Also, not every TLM offers confessions during Mass, or they may be offered only during certain Masses.
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