Family values
To be a Latter-day Saint is to be extremely pro-family and pro-life, which is laudable indeed. A true Latter-day Saint recognizes that life is a sacred gift from God and thus must be protected from the beginning to the end, and that families are the basic unit of society and thus deserve care, attention, dedication, support and protection in order that good citizens, happy people and holy souls might come from them. To be a Latter-day Saint is also to wish to be with one’s spouse forever, even after the resurrection. But to recognize the true value of married life one must be a Catholic, since only the Catholic Church sees marriage as Jesus saw it – together with the other side of the coin, namely, celibacy. The Mormon Church praises marriage to the exclusion of celibacy – celibacy is not encouraged, and a sealed marriage is even a necessary ordinance in order to progress to godhood one day. Christ, on the contrary, taught celibacy is for all those who can choose it for heaven’s sake: “there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.” (Matth. 19:12) St. Paul, unmarried himself like Jesus (who nevertheless progressed to godhood), teaches the same: “I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.” (1. Cor. 7:8-9) He repeats over and over again the Christian preference of celibacy over marriage (1. Cor. 7:1,6,7,24,27-28,32-34,38), words that would be absolutely unimaginable on any Mormon’s lips, since they so forcefully contradict the LDS view of marriage. Nevertheless this is the biblical view, the apostolic view, Jesus’ view, and indeed, the view of the Catholic Church. Concerning marriage after death, the Catholic Church gives an even better guarantee for spouses to be together in heaven than the Mormon Church, since the Catholic Church proclaims only one heaven, where all the faithful will go, whereas the Mormon spouses might be trapped in different heavens and thus lose the chance of being together forever. However, the Catholic Church explicitly contradicts the Mormon claim that the spouses will continue to be married after the resurrection (and that dead married couples could get eternally married through temple ceremonies performed by living believers), since this flies in the face of the teachings of Jesus: “The children of this world marry, and are given in marriage: But they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage.” (Luke 20:34-35) Or, as Mark renders it: “ye know not the scriptures…For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven…ye therefore do greatly err.” (Mark. 12:24-27) This makes it painfully clear that the LDS Church can have no claim to being the Church of Jesus Christ, since if Christ had really taught Mormonism, He would have had a perfect chance here to tell His inquirers about celestial marriages - that there in fact was marriage (even polygamy!) after the resurrection and that the married gods would then become the Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother of their own world. However, Latter-day Saints are right in believing that we actually do have a Heavenly Mother. They only need to realize that Scripture actually reveals her identity to us. Jesus Himself gives Her to us, saying: “Behold thy mother!“ (John 19:27) The Apocalypse shows us a woman in heaven (Rev. 12:1), the Mother of Jesus (Rev. 12:5), who also has other children (“the remnant of her seed”), namely those who “keep the commandments of God, and have the testimony of Jesus Christ” (Rev. 12:17). Since being a Latter-day Saint is having the testimony of Jesus and believing in a Heavenly Mother, to be a true and sincere Latter-day Saint is to accept the heavenly motherhood of Mary Most Holy and embrace the teaching of the Catholic Church.
Furthermore, to be as extremely pro-life as Christ and the apostles were is also to be a Catholic. Jesus knew well that divorce and remarriage are essentially contrary to the eternal law since couples are indissolubly united by the marital bond: “But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder…And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.” (Mark. 10:6-12)