Does it say anywhere that Joseph was married prior to Mary? I understand their age difference and knew that Joseph died leaving Mary a widow. But this scripture shows the Joseph and Mary did have sexual relations, “But he had no union with her as her husband until she had borne her firstborn Son; and he called His name Jesus.” Union is referring to sex. So she’s not the “ever virgin”
Nope. You miss the significance of the word “until”. It’s off-topic, but I’ll get you started in the right direction.
Matthew 1:25 does not imply that Joseph knew Mary after she had borne Jesus.
The Greek heôs, “until,” does not necessarily contrast “before” to “after.” It means that up to a certain moment, something happened or not, without considering what happened after that moment. For instance, the Greek text of the Septuagint says, in 2 Samuel 6:23, that “Mikal, daughter of Saul, had no children until (heôs) the days of her death.” This obviously does not suggest that she had children after her death. Matthew is interested in underlining that Jesus’ birth and conception were carried out without the intervention of any man.
Remove the word “until” from the verse, and you have the following:
“Joseph had no relations with her…she brought forth her firstborn”
Two simple statements. Protestants really disagree with the first of these two; therefore, the word “until” is the whole argument.
Either Joseph held off “until” and then proceeded to have relations (the Protestant position) OR Joseph had no relations with her. Period. (the Catholic position).
Naturally, Protestants argue for a simple reading of the text, but Catholics counter that “until” doesn’t actually imply the cessation of past action (namely, holding off). Although things look intuitively obvious for the Protestant point of view, in actual fact, the Catholic position is not harmed at all by the word “until” because that word implies nothing…and other verses in scripture PROVE that point.
Consequently, Matthew 1:25 cannot be used to disprove the perpetual virginity of Mary.
Genesis 8:7
The raven “did not return TILL the waters were dried up…” Did the raven ever return?
Deuteronomy 34:6 (Knox)
No one knew the location of his grave “until this present day” But we know that no one has known it since that day either.
1 Maccabees 5:54
“…not one of them was slain TILL they had returned in peace.” Were Judas Maccabeus and his troops killed when they returned?
Luke 1:80
“And the child grew and became strong in spirit; and he lived in the desert until he appeared publicly to Israel.” The Greek word translated “until” in this passage is heos, the same word used in Matthew 1:25. The child spoken of is John the Baptist who, after as well as before he appeared in public, resided in the desert (cf. Matt. 3:1, Mark 1:3,4; Luke 3:2).
Romans 8:22
“…the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together UNTIL now.” Is it still groaning?
1 Corinthians 15:25
“For He must reign TILL He has put all enemies under His feet.” After all enemies are put away, will Christ be reigning?