Yes Otjm, I totally agree with you. I think priests have an important role within the parish, but they should not be the last word on everything. Women & men (both single & married) should also be organising figureheads in a parish, as well as social groups representing most sectors. Ministries should be rotated periodically to remove cliques etc. a bigger parish has more opportunities for everything. I do think that the priest’s sermon at mass is valid, however there could maybe other opportunities within parish life for talks/sermons given by lay people re. their spiritual journey etc.
& the parish secretary should not hold the only set of keys to the gate!! The parish secretary considers the priest her ‘boss’, & happy to please him & be favoured, becomes little more than the extension of his right hand. How many parish secretaries are men? The priests involve themselves in a ‘boys club’ & using the tool of their secretaries, decide who’s in & who’s out. Too much power given to too few. & how about some priests who haven’t come from devout catholic family backgrounds? Priests tend to support each other with an ‘us & them’ attitude.
Of course there are fundamental religious reasons things have gone this way, but nevertheless they are also the cause of the downfall. Life is too short to settle for this.