Too many problems?

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I’ve been having a lot of emotional issues lately, and there is one person I have been going to for help. Just a little bit ago I had a really bad moment and well just say I wanted to go to heaven. Anyway, I asked him to help and he did. But then his girlfriend texted me and told me that they were praying for me, but also to not text him about my problems anymore because he has a bunch of his own that are similar to mine and that me telling him my issuess was stressing him and causing him anxiety. I blocked both their numbers. I feel so bad for hurting my friend, but also I didn’t know I was. I don’t really think she should have told me to stop bringing my issues to him, since she’s never met me or anything, he’s like my big brother. So. What do I do?
 
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You respect his girlfriend.

He is not your brother, he is your friend. You have been asked to stop and you have, which is good.

It dosn’t matter she has never met you.

It may be time for you to seek professional help, we should have a network of friends and you may need help to get good advice while you seek more appropriate friendships.
 
When your only contact with someone is to express negative emotions, it can have a debilitating effect on that person. I agree that it would be better to talk to a therapist or a counselor.
 
Be assured of our prayers.
It might help you to feel more positive if eavery day you make a point of thinking of something you are grateful for within your life.

We never know what others are going though so we need to be careful how much of our personal roses we put on others’ shoulders. Even the most serene person can by carrying heavy issues.
I hope you find someone to help you to be better able to deal with yours in helpful, positive ways.
God bless you
 
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I’ve said a lot of happy things as well. Just this period in my life has a lot of up and downs, and now I realize i have been selfish in my actions.
 
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I’ve said a lot of happy things as well. Just this period in my life has a lot of up and downs, and now I realize i have been selfish in my actions.
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Well, it’s always good to seek out help; but sometimes it can tend to overwhelm one’s friends. I hope things improve for you and I’ll keep you in my prayers.
 
Chocolate is an amazing antidepressant. I feel a lot better now, and I feel that the prayers most definitely helped. Thank you so much
 
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