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AnneTeresa
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I understand what you are saying Monica. I live in a liberal city, I’ve been a “liberal” catholic myself, I work at a very liberal University, and I am surrounded by people who are liberal in their catholicism. To me liberal means not orthodox. That means you follow the main parts of catholicism but reserve the right to disagree with some practices, such as birth control or homosexuality (both big issues in the city I live in) because you believe they just don’t fit today’s world.
For me, it’s been a source of great confusion as I’ve become more orthodox and obedient in my catholic faith. I not only had to explore what the church really said about things and why, but also fight against years of entrenched liberalism that was in my mind. But I am becoming stronger in believing that the Church is the authority, not me and not my friends and not even some of the priests and churches here.
It is hard when you are surrounded by people who think less orthodox-like (is that even a word?) but you are a strong Christian and you should just stand true to what you know is true.
Being married to someone like this (less orthodox) and having friends who are all like this, I know there is not really anything you can say to them to change their minds. I was the same way for a long time. I called myself a “more liberal catholic” and was proud of it. So, I’d say just keep true to what you know is the truth and try not to let them sway you from that or make you feel bad.
I’m sort of embarrassed at things I said to orthodox catholics (probably just like the new friends you have-I talked about how black/white thinking was so very wrong even as recently as a few months ago.
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For me, it’s been a source of great confusion as I’ve become more orthodox and obedient in my catholic faith. I not only had to explore what the church really said about things and why, but also fight against years of entrenched liberalism that was in my mind. But I am becoming stronger in believing that the Church is the authority, not me and not my friends and not even some of the priests and churches here.
It is hard when you are surrounded by people who think less orthodox-like (is that even a word?) but you are a strong Christian and you should just stand true to what you know is true.
Being married to someone like this (less orthodox) and having friends who are all like this, I know there is not really anything you can say to them to change their minds. I was the same way for a long time. I called myself a “more liberal catholic” and was proud of it. So, I’d say just keep true to what you know is the truth and try not to let them sway you from that or make you feel bad.
I’m sort of embarrassed at things I said to orthodox catholics (probably just like the new friends you have-I talked about how black/white thinking was so very wrong even as recently as a few months ago.