These are some of the things we did for our grandparents’ funerals. I cantored all of them, so we did not have a choir.
Abide With Me
Lord of All Hopefulness
In Paradisum (chant - I prefer hearing women’s voices because it sounds like a chorus of angels)
youtube.com/watch?v=Hg43i3Nsl9g
Panis Angelicus
Ave Maria (As requested by all of the Grandmothers)
Pie Jesu (Three of the funerals had the one from Faure’s Requiem. One of them had the one from Durufle’s Requiem)
youtube.com/watch?v=_VLY2bd5w8k
This is usually a solo, but they had the females in the choir sing it:
youtube.com/watch?v=39dmOQF0FaQ
Be Still My Soul (Finlandia - This was actually just done as an instrumental for harp and violin)
Love Divine, All Loves Excelling
I Heard the Voice of Jesus
Other hymns and such I have done at funerals when the families consulted me or when I had free reign to choose what I wanted:
Ave Verum Corpus (Mozart - either one voice or choir)
Ave Verum Corpus (Faure - For two treble voices or treble choir - I actually had this sung at my wedding as well, even though it has been used for funerals. We’ll sing the Mozart, too, at weddings.)
youtube.com/watch?v=KuM4ibLy_MY
N’aie pas peur
youtube.com/watch?v=SjVCih5OyG8
I Know that My Redeemer LIves (Duke Street)
O Breathe on Me, O Breath of God (St. Columba)
The King of Love My Shepherd Is (St. Columba)
What Wondrous Love is This
He Comes to Us As One Unknown
Ubi Caritas
Unless otherwise indicated by the particular parish I’m singing in (I freelance all over), I will chant the In Paradisum at the end.