True these are some good questions. Notice that in none of my posts have I ever been a proponent of Latin only, although Latin in my opinion should be used epsecially during the Consecration, again my opinion and preference. One thing I’ve notice at the TLM is that during the silent moments, one can get easily be distracted or if tired, very sleepy

. The OF allows one to participate in many scared prayers and I have no problem with that, in fact I enjoy that, but it lacks silence and some cases reverence. As humans we tend to be visual creatures, and showing ad orientum (at least during consecrations), incense, bells, and silence shows that the Consecreation and Eucharist are the center high point of the Mass.
I agree!
The other important thing to keep in mind is that different things work for different people. Believe it or not, there are people on these boards who have said flat out, “I don’t like music at Mass; I find it distracting, especially if there are any words.” Well, that’s fine – go to a Low Mass, or whatever other Mass your parish has that doesn’t have music, which is often the early-morning Mass. Obviously, the Church as an institution
does like music at Mass, and there are many Vatican documents discussing its importance. But to each his own, and we’d probably be worse off if the Church mandated that all five Propers and a full Ordinary be sung at every Mass, to say nothing of a recessional hymn, Communion meditation hymn, etc. Likewise, there are people who say, “The best thing about the silent Canon is that it allows you to really concentrate on it; whenever it’s spoken I lose focus.” Okay, no problem – for
him. Other people say they get distracted and uncomfortable during protracted periods of silence, and find it easier to focus their thoughts and pray if a suitable sacred song is being sung.
So that’s the problem with just saying,
tout court, that the Mass needs more sacred silence, or more sacred music, or whatever. All that really means is that
I want more of it, and it’s something that helps
me pray and worship. Some people get distracted when something is spoken, others get distracted when it isn’t.
That’s not to apply too great a level or relativism to it, of course. I’m willing to say point blank that the organ is more reverent than the kazoo, and one belong in Mass while the other doesn’t. But to say that a problem with the OF is that it “lacks silence” makes sense only if you happen to want more silence. Naturally, many people who prefer the TLM
do like more silence, but remember that even within that group there are folks who would get irritated to have a choir singing De Lassus or Monteverdi polyphonic Propers during the Eucharistic Prayer, and others who think that’s the height of religious refinement.