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If I was sitting on the sofa and the cat wanted to sit in the same place, my mother would make me move. 
Kelfa28, you made my day. You truly get it. You captured my DHās experience perfectly!Iām very much in the same camp as your husband and I sympathize.
Iāve been sent to the hospital more then once, throughout my life, because of a triggered asthma attach due to severe allergies to pet dander.
Some houses I go into are okay and I can tolerate being there for a couple of hours before I start to feel itchy and stuffy.
Other houses I know immediately there is a dog, cat or rabbit because I feel like Iām being suffocated within seconds of stepping inside the house.
We can never have a furry pet. Itās just not possible because I value my health too much. The girls are too young to start wanting a dog and I will feel a little bad when I have to tell them itās just not possible.
In all seriousness, I truly think a lot of people just donāt get it. My parents have a couple of dogs and they still have a hard time understanding that Iām really allergic.
Iām always told to just go get a āhypoallergenicā dog or get allergy shots. Other people are totally incredulous that I canāt stay at their house for more then a short period of time and that just sitting on their couch could set off a reaction.
Another thing that really scares me and upsets me is how people canāt control their dogs.
Iāll go on walks with my girls and theyāve been terrified more then once when dogs start barking and lunging at the carriage.
Meanwhile the owner is struggling to contain the dog and claiming āoh, heās harmless! Heāll never hurt anyone!ā
In all truth and honestyā¦my husband will always carry concealed when we go on walksā¦or make me take my purse and carry concealed for that reason alone.
All it takes is one slip up of the leash with a big dog.
Sorryā¦but this is my experience with other people and their animals.
Honestly, I love pets tooā¦unless they endanger the life of my DH or child (we have had uncontrolled pets jump on him as a toddler). Did I like the fact that my MIL kept a cat in her house that nearly scratched my DHās eye (he has a scar on the bridge of his nose)? Did I like the fact that she would not keep said cat with a sitter when DS was a baby? Did I like that she had no consideration for her sonās medical condition? He was on heavy steroids when we visited.This whole thread sickens me. Animals are beautiful and share this planet with us. They serve us by being eyes for the Blind, ears for the Deaf, serve our police, search and rescue, and they help the disabled. Iāve done volunteer work with dogs who serve the disabled and itās amazing how these animals HELP people.
And Francis of Assisi was inspired by them. He set the doves free. He calmed down the wolf. He preached the Gospel to the birds and they listened. God loves ALL of His creatures.
And you know what? I go gaga over animals. Whatās cuter than a happy dog, happy to see me, wagging its tail? How sweet is that? And sure, Iāll talk to such a beautiful sentient being with a cutesy voice because thatās who I am.
Dude, the power of love is amazing. SO WHAT if a person loves their pet so much that they want to help their hurting or sick pet that they would go into debt for it? Thatās their business. You donāt know their story. You donāt know how much a pet or animal can mean to a person. Like I said, Iāve worked with dogs who assist the disabled. Those animals live their LIFE to SERVE and that is beauty. And who said Francis of Assisi was a demi-God? I mean whut? The fact is he is the patron saint of animals and nature. Thereās a reason why.
Been there tooā¦If I was sitting on the sofa and the cat wanted to sit in the same place, my mother would make me move.![]()
I have to disagree with this. The love you give a child is the most unconditional love you experience from God. I would also say the same thing about a spouse. In both instances, they try to get you to Heaven and vice versa. Thatās huge.Animals are the closest form of Godās unconditional love that we will ever get to experience on this earth. Iām appalled by Catholics who think that supporting animal rights somehow makes them less of a Catholic.
I stay away from this thinking. Love is love, God loves Man and Woman, yes, and we need our Redeemer. But we should not place pride in knowing of His great love for Man and Woman. This is the sort of stuff angels had wars in heaven about. This is the sort of stuff that made Lucifer have a fit and fell from grace. He wanted to be Godās āmost loved.ā Pride in being loved can be dangerous thinking. Not for nothing.Animals have a place, but God definitely put man above them.
Agreed. And vegetarianism is indeed healthy. It certainly makes meatless Fridays and Lent much easier.I think the lives of animals are definitely worth more than we think. I certainly think that vegetarianism is preferable to eating meat, not that Iām a vegetarian. At any rate, I donāt think the fact that people refer to animals as being members of their family is an actual reflection of their view that animals are humans.
This isnāt pride. Iām referring to Genesis 1:26. Nothing more, nothing less.I stay away from this thinking. Love is love, God loves Man and Woman, yes, and we need our Redeemer. But we should not place pride in knowing of His great love for Man and Woman. This is the sort of stuff angels had wars in heaven about. This is the sort of stuff that made Lucifer have a fit and fell from grace. He wanted to be Godās āmost loved.ā Pride in being loved can be dangerous thinking. Not for nothing.
The point is, God loves animals, too, and they have their place with Him as His creations as well.
Agreed. And vegetarianism is indeed healthy. It certainly makes meatless Fridays and Lent much easier.![]()
Nice to know Iām not alone!Been there tooā¦
I have given myself a day to think about this comment. I must ask. Do you hate it when a person loves a beautiful car enough to spent 40K on it. We love our objects enough to spend great sums of money on them. Is loving an animal worse than our love for things?Francis is not the Demigod pagan Catholic overlord of nature worship and hippie animal care. Just because some particular saints were close to animals, does not in any way shape or form convey that they viewed Gods animal creations on an equal playing field as humans. I love saint Francis of Assisi. His āLedgendā if you will is incredible, but he is in no way venerated for downright worship or humanly care towards animals. Nor is he an excuse for getting Old Rover on doggie anti depressants, or paying a 40k medical bill to try and battle his cancer at 17 years of age.
Francis is no excuse for animal worship, I agree, but how people spend their money is not for anyone else to say. What about buying other luxury items, if weāre going to castigate people for being extravagant? And just what is extravagant? It may not be the same based on income and availability of such items. Remember, people who professionally care for pets or make luxury items have families to feed too.Francis is not the Demigod pagan Catholic overlord of nature worship and hippie animal care. Just because some particular saints were close to animals, does not in any way shape or form convey that they viewed Gods animal creations on an equal playing field as humans. I love saint Francis of Assisi. His āLedgendā if you will is incredible, but he is in no way venerated for downright worship or humanly care towards animals. Nor is he an excuse for getting Old Rover on doggie anti depressants, or paying a 40k medical bill to try and battle his cancer at 17 years of age.
Hate to have to be the one to inform you, but we are already there; about a year ago someone āmarriedā a dolphin.Maybe some day they will want to marry them.
Being owned by a cat is we cat loversā insiderās jokeādue to the nature of cats being so demandingāa fact of which you are obviously ignorant.Polluted,
Are you still there? As you can see here there are people who will insist on putting animals on the same level as people. Some even putting them above people, going so far as saying they are owned by their animals.
Many here have given reasoned responses as to why a more level headed approach is needed. But common sense is not something that will convince some people. For them feeling is reality. Much like liberal politicians who think that all they have is say something and that makes it true. Oh well such is life. And when some say animals have rights to own things such as property and rights to photographs they are in, well those folks are hopeless.Maybe some day they will want to marry them
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Keep plugging away.![]()
Science has demonstrated just the opposite. Infact, science has also shown that animals such as great apes, elephants, bottle nose dolphins etc., are actually self-aware. Up until very recently, it was believed that only homo sapiens (i.e. human beings) were self-aware.
.** Anybody that really knows animals know that animals have instincts not feelings. **