Hi, Joseie!
…again, it is espousing “death” to the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil that makes you think that the tree brought death.
Death was brought about by Adam’s sin.
Adam’s disobedience of the Creator and allegiance with the creatures brought him death.
Adam and Eve did acquire Knowledge of Good and Evil, making themselves similar to God. How do I know? Here’s what Scriptures tell us:
Adam and Eve became cognizant of their physical exposure, covered themselves, and hid from God.
The problem you are having, as Adam and Eve had, is that you want what you want when you want it–that is, you are not humble enough to allow God to determine *when *we should have access to those things to which He has set limits.
Scriptures do not tell us that God never intended for Adam and Eve to become as He is; the truth is far from it:
It is God’s Design that we become as He. Yet, that will be accomplished according to His Will not ours.
Maran atha!
Angel