My mother was born in 1912 in a very small Catholic farm community in Oregon. When I say small, her high school graduating class (Catholic school) was 5 students.
One day, out of curiosity, I asked her which she preferred - Latin or English in the Mass, and I hardly had the words out of my mouth when she exclaimed “Oh, in English! I can understand everything and don’t have to read while the priest is saying something!”
She was the one who bought all of us missals when we were old enough to use one, something that few of my classmates had.
People took to the Ordinary form like ducks to water. There have been statements made about how vast numbers of people left the Church or simply stopped attending Mass (and in particular, in this forum) but there are no valid studies - in fact no studies at all which I can find - which lend any support whatsoever to such claims. In fact, the stuies which exist, show that attendance peaked in the 1950’s at about 70% of baptized people attending regularly, and over the next 65 years +/- attendance dropped off at a rate of about 1% per year until leveling out near 25%.
Yes, this is a traditional forum, and yes, it is going to be populated largely by people who may prefer the EF (which really should be no surprise…

). And yes, there are people who would prefer the EF and have nowhere to attend one. It has been almost 10 years (this coming July 7) since Summorum Pontificum was promulgated, The current results are that less than 3% of parishes in the US have an EF Mass, and that includes everything from a parish having the EF both on every Sunday and during the week, to those which have one once a month; last I looked, there was one parish which appeared to have the EF once every 6 months.
The short of it is that those who prefer the EF are in a very small minority of the entire population of people who go to Mass. That is not a value judgement nor is it any commentary on the efficacy of either form of the Mass; it is simply the preferences of both groups, and one group is far larger than the other.
Reverence is as reverence does. Yes, there have been abuses in the OF, for failure to adhere to the rubrics. Having had 16 years of a priest who had problems (at least in part due to alcoholism) when I was a youth, I can attest that there were at times a profound lack of reverence in the EF in that parish. And I have been around long enough to know it was not totally isolated.