Yes.
Well, respectfully, I don’t know if one can say that “being with” the and at the same time “actually being” is clear.
BTW, I also question whether certain influences of the time (e.g. Roman-pagan) affected what resulted in what is now considered the NT. I certainly respect the NT as Sacred Scripture in the sense that it is the book of a sincere religion. In fact, I agree with Catholicism that is must be understood properly in its context, and IMHO this context includes the environment (Greek/Roman/pagan) from which it sprang.
So, I propose/question that “was God” and “was with God” simultaneously, is a.) a contradiction of reason if taken literally and b.) describes a division in God that no Jew, not even the disciples, would (readily) accept. For example, Jews believe in the Holy Spirit (God is referred to this way in the OT) but they absolutely don’t interpret those Scriptures as God having parts/persons. Therefore a Jew (it seems IMHO) could easiliy interpret John also, in a non-Trinitarian way. Which is why I question that the Trinitarian view may have been influenced by the environment in which Sacred Scripture emerged. Doesn’t Revelations (also believed to be by John) have all kinds of symbolic language? If you think of what I am saying, it’s actually friendly to Christianity. I’m proposing, why let errant Roman/pagan philosophy interfere (if that is what happened) with the understanding of God becoming man.
My proposal is that the current theology is still underdeveloped (i.e. subject to development). I propose that many of these understandings were solidified in a tumultuous environment (325 AD) and have such legacy that no one questions them. (The Pope has hinted IMHO that maybe a softening [analogous to Jesus’ flesh] is in order and that it’s not an era of change but change of an era. Correct me if I’m wrong about Pope Francis saying these things. Now, I’m not saying that that necessarily supports my thesis but I also propose what the Pope is saying as a clue that maybe a new era allows better and more reasonable understanding.)
So, I don’t dispute that some Scriptures can be interpreted in support of the Trinity. However, I would propose/question whether they are misinterpretations (including the full context as I referred to). I would also propose that, from a purely objective standpoint, it is believable that God could become man (which I don’t question here) and not be a Trinity.