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These aren’t my words, the words and the use of bold type are from the website:
exmormon.org/mormon/mormon329.htm
Do church leaders think they have a duty to tell the truth, or to protect church authority at all costs?Apostle Dallin Oaks:, namely the authority of priesthood, testimony regarding the restoration of the gospel, and the divine mission of the Savior. Everything may be sacrificed in order to maintain the integrity of those essential facts. Thus, if Mormon Enigma reveals information that is detrimental to the reputation of Joseph Smith, then it is necessary to try to limit its influence and that of its authors.""My duty as a member of the Council of the Twelve is to protect what is most unique about the LDS church
exmormon.org/mormon/mormon329.htm
- Apostle Dallin Oaks, footnote 28, Inside the Mind of Joseph Smith: Psychobiography and the Book of Mormon, Introduction p. xliii
Transcript from “The Mormons”, PBS documentary by American Experience & Frontline
(The 13th quote down):
DALLIN H. OAKS, LDS Quorum of the Twelve Apostles: It’s wrong to criticize leaders of the church, even if the criticism is true.
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As Elder George F. Richards, President of the Council of the Twelve, said in a conference address in April 1947, ‘when we say anything bad about the leaders of the Church, whether true or false, we tend to impair their influence and their usefulness and are thus working against the Lord and his cause.’ … The Holy Ghost will not guide or confirm criticism of the Lord’s anointed, or of Church leaders, local or general. This reality should be part of the spiritual evaluation that LDS readers and viewers apply to those things written about our history and those who made it."
- Dallin H. Oaks, “Reading Church History,” CES Doctrine and Covenants Symposium, Brigham Young University, 16 Aug. 1985, page 25. also see Dallin H. Oaks, “Elder Decries Criticism of LDS Leaders,” quoted in The Salt Lake Tribune, Sunday August 18, 1985, p. 2B
why me, most people I know who have left, or are in the process of leaving mormonism, the struggle is trust. Having been taught that your feelings are the barometer of Truth, and discovering your feelings led you so incredibly far into falsehoods…you no longer trust your own feelings. And, you don’t trust organized religions because you don’t want to fall for such a bag of lies again, not as long as you live. Trust, is the hardest issue. Atheism, universalism, agnosticism, they are attractive at this point. Believe nothing, or believe everything is flatly “maybe true”, it seems like a middle road. Like the most reasonable and rational route. But a happy go lucky guy like yourself already knows this.
I see similar issues from the former Jehovah Witnesses who post here.
You hit the nail on the head of what the real issue is. Trust. Period. It was never about what “why me” suggested.
Still find it curious that he/she would make such comment and it seems pretty apparently that they have never really talked with many who have left or are in the process of leaving.
The lady who was head of the RCIA program when I went thru was very patient with me and my ability to trust. She really just let the Holy Spirit do His job and never pressured me.
Just answered my questions openly honestly. I was never pressured into commitment. Even our pastor was really cool and low key. He just trust that God would lead me to where He wanted me to be.
No. I have never been a Mormon. I don’t have family that is Mormon. I just have a real heart for them. I have a heart for them because of their 60,000 missionaries out there witnessing their lie. Most of these missionaries are born to the lie and they go out to trick people who might have an honest desire to get close to God. Once they are in, either way, it is hard for them to get out without feeling rejected by friends and family. Because of their insistence of being called Christian, a person who leaves the Mormon church also could feel rejected by Christ. That is the trap and another lie. I think there will be die hard Mormons who will always reject Christ’s message of truth because they have lived in the lie for so long, They have started to view the faults in their church, faults in their prophet, faults in their scripture as faith-testing moments. And to be quite honest, it does take faith to believe that JS saw God, when the Bible clearly teaches no man has seen God, except Jesus. So you have to have a tremendous faith to believe even God has rejected his own truth to appear before JS. I’m afraid I have a minuscule faith to simply believe God’s truth is constant.