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This is a very hard post for me to make, but I think it is the right thing to do after some harsh, angry posts I made:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=740725
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=741676
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=602118&page=33
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=730498&page=29
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=740257&page=2
In short, I criticized Marian devotion as idolatry and encouraged others to do so. I still think some of it goes over the top (St. Louis de Montfort is still an enormous stumbling block), but instead of criticizing such devotions, I will simply stay away from them. I apologize to anyone whose feelings I hurt with what I said.
For about four months, after I overdid Marian devotion (which I did after I overcame the temptation to join a Baptist church… Long story there), I came to the conclusion that the only solution was to eschew it altogether. Now, that was probably the right thing for me to do on a temporary basis; since Marian devotion wasn’t leading me to Jesus, but only to Mary, maybe it was the right thing to do. After all, that time away from Mary brought me closer to Jesus. But Lent also brought me closer to Him; that doesn’t mean it needs to last a long time.
That’s right, the guy who complained about other people’s Marian devotion is getting back into it himself. Feel free to gloat and say, “I told you so,” because you all told me so. I’m doing rosaries, taking comfort in Mary’s embrace, and imitating her virtues (which is a huge step because I’m a man).
What happened, you ask? While I was typing a URL on Thursday, my browser suggested the following page (on the list of URLs it suggests) I hadn’t seen since I researched the topic of Marian devotion back in December:
forums.catholic-convert.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=55781&sid=ae6dfa06b680102040875b5f301b4bf5
Back in December, I didn’t read very far into this, because I dismissed this as no more than opinions by people who knew nothing (talk about pride). But this time, I decided to read the thread in its entirety. Here are the statements that got me thinking:
I preach this all the time, but somehow, I thought the fact that I felt that Marian devotion separated me from Jesus made it so.
Since I have this “certain attitude and devotion” to the Eucharist, this made sense.
Then the answer came:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=740725
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=741676
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=602118&page=33
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=730498&page=29
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=740257&page=2
In short, I criticized Marian devotion as idolatry and encouraged others to do so. I still think some of it goes over the top (St. Louis de Montfort is still an enormous stumbling block), but instead of criticizing such devotions, I will simply stay away from them. I apologize to anyone whose feelings I hurt with what I said.
For about four months, after I overdid Marian devotion (which I did after I overcame the temptation to join a Baptist church… Long story there), I came to the conclusion that the only solution was to eschew it altogether. Now, that was probably the right thing for me to do on a temporary basis; since Marian devotion wasn’t leading me to Jesus, but only to Mary, maybe it was the right thing to do. After all, that time away from Mary brought me closer to Jesus. But Lent also brought me closer to Him; that doesn’t mean it needs to last a long time.
That’s right, the guy who complained about other people’s Marian devotion is getting back into it himself. Feel free to gloat and say, “I told you so,” because you all told me so. I’m doing rosaries, taking comfort in Mary’s embrace, and imitating her virtues (which is a huge step because I’m a man).
What happened, you ask? While I was typing a URL on Thursday, my browser suggested the following page (on the list of URLs it suggests) I hadn’t seen since I researched the topic of Marian devotion back in December:
forums.catholic-convert.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=55781&sid=ae6dfa06b680102040875b5f301b4bf5
Back in December, I didn’t read very far into this, because I dismissed this as no more than opinions by people who knew nothing (talk about pride). But this time, I decided to read the thread in its entirety. Here are the statements that got me thinking:
Well, first of all, I can’t help but notice your use of the word ‘feel’, one thing you need to know is that, in general, and in particular in the spiritual life, while feelings may matter, they aren’t central, and they can be very misleading.Yes, that is my difficulty, but I assumed that this was the proper place to ask about it? I have difficulty believing that, though my personal methods of devotion, that if I petition Jesus for anything, that he would say “No, no, you have to go through my mom/St. Frances/ etc first.” I want to know if knowing, respecting, and honoring the role that Mary prayed in Christ’s life is considered devotion. The reason why I ask is because when I petition Mary and to the Saints for prayers, I feel more separated from Christ, not closer.
Saying that you ‘feel’ something, does not make it reality. That you ‘feel’ a particular does not mean that the feeling is actually accurate or truthful, sometimes our feelings lie to us. Sometimes, we can be led to trust someone that we shouldn’t, because we ‘feel’ a certain way. Don’t be led by your feelings, sometimes, in fact often, they lie to you.
I preach this all the time, but somehow, I thought the fact that I felt that Marian devotion separated me from Jesus made it so.
I agree. Because of what the Church teaches us about Mary, a certain attitude and honor of Her should naturally follow. If it doesn’t…there is most likely a problem somewhere.No specific devotion is binding, but I think that a general devotion to Mary of some kind is mandatory for all Catholics, i.e. you can’t be a Catholic and just totally ignore Mary, if you do, you will stumble somewhere along the way.
In an analogous case, a certain attitude and devotion should follow from what the Church teaches on the Eucharist. If it doesn’t, there is most likely a problem somewhere.
Since I have this “certain attitude and devotion” to the Eucharist, this made sense.
Council of Nicea II: Proper Respect for the Mother of God
- If anyone shall not confess the holy ever-virgin Mary, truly and properly the Mother of God, to be higher than every creature whether visible or invisible, and does not with sincere faith seek her intercessions as of one having confidence in her access to our God, since she bare him, let him be anathema!
I wondered if it was true that anyone who didn’t pray to Mary was anathema, and then the thought came to me: Even if that’s not true, is it so wise to adamantly refuse Marian devotion over a matter of feeling?The Second Council of Nicea, 787
Then the answer came:
This is something I preach a lot too. People will say, “But X is not a sin,” where X is any act that the Church has not explicitly condemned but follows from one or more teachings, and I say, “Smoking isn’t a sin; that doesn’t mean it’s good for you.”Off the cuff, I would say whatever is necessary to show due respect to her role in God’s plan of salvation. I’m afraid this is another one of those things where the absolute minimum is hard to pin down. But then, shooting for the minimum is dangerous anyhow–it doesn’t leave much room for error.