I donāt need reality TV to turn peopleās problems into entertainment for my benefit, anytime I want to get involved in these situations I have my own extended family who generously provide all the opportunities I need in one lifetime to deal with abuse, manipulation and self-destruction. When my family lets me down and acts normal for a while, there is always my parish. To intervene with people in need or in crisis on film for entertainment is to me the very worst sort of exploitation. Unless it is presented in a manner that provides help to others struggling with similar issuesāand frankly that describes very few ārealityā i.e. heavily scripted, shows, I will turn to real life for my own reality checks.