We didn’t discuss anything. You simply asserted that the principles of human behavior, that we all operate under all the time, do not apply to you and yours in this particular context. I’m expected to believe, prima facie, that your abasement to God has not the slightest thing to do with avoiding the Worst Thing Ever.
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You only think this because you have claimed that real love for the sake of another person is impossible, that people only act because it makes them feel good. You even went so far as to claim that when you help an old lady across the street, you do not do so out of any real concern or love for her, but only for the good feeling it gives you.
Frankly, I don’t even believe that you are as selfish as you are claiming to be. It’s just not plausible that you can’t care for another person, even at least a little bit, for their own sake and not only because of their value to you. I told you before: of course we are all human, so we do mix selfish and lesser motives in with the good ones. I married my wife partly because I expected to be happy, but there was also at least a little bit of me capable of loving her for her own sake and not just for her use to me. People do come to God with mixed reasons, but there is no reason to think those motives are dominated by fear of hell. Christians do not worship God from fear, but from love of him, which, given all he has done for us (creation, incarnation, crucifixion, heaven) is perfectly understandable. What is *not *understandable, is people who cannot see how all this would lead us to love God.
Further, your examples of his ‘Love’ are incoherent. He created the Universe and everything in it and all of us because Loves us. Nevermind that if he hadn’t done these things, we wouldn’t be around to know about it or fault him for it. He also gave his son up for a filthy human sacrifice because he Loves us.
These would not be evidences of Love even if they did meet a coherent definition of the word. You’ve presupposed Love into the very character of God’s being, to the exclusion of all else. Therefore, anything he does is, by definition, evidence of his Love. God does not do things because he Loves us. He loves us because he Does Things.
This is hardly coherent, but I will try to respond as briefly as possible.
Your understanding of the
Atonement (why Jesus died) is terrible. It is a gross caricature even of the penal substitution view, to which you refer (which is a Protestant, not Catholic view). I should be ashamed to show as poor an understanding of atheism as you do of Christian doctrine. But perhaps that is safest for you. If you actually understood Christianity, you might come to like it. That being said, Christians are not committed to the penal substitution view; we also have several other ways to explain it, including the
Christus victor view and the
Moral Influence View. In any version, however, God himself (since Jesus was God) died for us. How is one person dying for another (or many) not an example of love?
And of course if he hadn’t created us, we wouldn’t be around to know it. That is exactly my point! He did not have to, but did, out of his love for us. The same love that led him to suffer and die for us, and the same love that caused him to want us to enjoy eternal happiness with him. Perhaps it is understandable then why we would feel love and gratitude back to him?
God’s nature is itself loving, yes, that is true. For the purposes of our discussion, though, you don’t need to admit this. You just need to be able to understand that God created us, suffered and died for us, and destined us for eternal happiness with himself. If this isn’t love, then the word has no meaning.
[eternal worship, praise, submission to God…] It’s always cheering when folks are willing to concede this much. Of course, this never stops them from turning around and calling it Paradise, or using words like Happiness and Joy to describe it.
If you wish to understand heaven better, see,
Wright’s book on it. CS Lewis’s
Weight of Glory and
Great Divorce are also very good. Heaven is eternal worship. That it not a concession. Imagine. A little girl picks a bouquet of flowers for her mother. She presents them to her and the mother is quite rightly, pleased with the gift (though she had not need of it). The mother did not need the flowers,
but the child needed to give them! Why? Because the child has been been given many good things, love, shelter etc. For her to not give the flowers would mean that she would be lacking in gratitude. But it is not a burden for her to give them, she does so happily, out of gratitude and love for her mother, and is pleased to do it. Likewise with us and God. We are happy to give our worship from love of gratitude of what God has done for us. Of course this would be part of eternal happiness.
This is not to say that heaven is
only worship. (Hence why you should read the Wright book). Many of the goods in this world will continue in some way in the next as well.