Unequal Sex Drive in Marriage

[Xantippe]

I think that a husband or wife should go along with the partner with the stronger sex drive. In fact, according to the Catholic view, a spouse should not deny the partner (unless, naturally, there is a quite good reason for this). This has been called the marriage debt.
This of course may not help the original poster though. But this does seems worth saying here.

Within reason.

 

[Luvz2travel]

I’m not married but a guy who only want it once a month sounds strange to me. Your schedule of 4xs a weeks sounds completely normal to be especially for someone only a few years married. Does he feel pressured from you on the issue. Sometimes if someone feels pressure to do something or provide something for someone else that pressure can have the opposite effect. We humans are rebels at heart and often want what we can’t have and don’t want to give what we feel pressured or cornered into just as a general rule. That all goes for many things. Prayers.