Unwanted Love

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I need a bit of help. I’ve fallen in love with someone I shouldn’t have fallen in love with. I’ve never actually felt like this towards anyone before and I’m having a difficult time dealing with it.

Please remember me in your prayers as I combat these overwhelming and unwanted feelings.

Thank you. 🙂
 
i think most of us can sympathize/
empathise with you.
prayers said.
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.

Amen
:crossrc:
 
I can definitely relate to your situation. My thoughts are prayers are with you as you struggle to understand God’s will for you. May God grant you strength and courage in your time of need.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you. Blessed are you among women and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now, and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed by thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle. Be our defense against the wickedness and the snares of the devil. May God rebuke him, we humbly pray; and do thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host, by the power of God, cast into hell Satan and all evil spirits who prowl about the world seeking the ruin of souls. Amen.
 
Pray for me, and I will pray for you.

I certainly know what you mean.

It’s odd, but the subconscious mind can’t understand negative commands. That’s an insight out of hypotist psychology - since those guys are fairly successful at what they do, I think it’s a credible insight. Thus, we shouldn’t repeat to ourselves, “I can’t be in love with this person,” but rather, we’d say, “I will love this person as I ought,” or “I will think of something else in preference to romantic feelings.” Positive diversions work better than outright denial, then. After all, you can’t negate someone’s else existence or feelings, even. I think feelings require re-shaping, rather than suppression. Take what I say with a grain of salt, however - I am not a doctor or a psychologist or an expect of human nature. I just borrowed insight from a website and tried to give it a useful application.

Being in love with someone you shouldn’t is painful. Moving past it is not easy.
 
I pray for you to be free in all ways and for you to make more room for Jesus in your heart. He is love and happiness.
 
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Pray for me, and I will pray for you.

I certainly know what you mean.

It’s odd, but the subconscious mind can’t understand negative commands. That’s an insight out of hypotist psychology - since those guys are fairly successful at what they do, I think it’s a credible insight. Thus, we shouldn’t repeat to ourselves, “I can’t be in love with this person,” but rather, we’d say, “I will love this person as I ought,” or “I will think of something else in preference to romantic feelings.” Positive diversions work better than outright denial, then. After all, you can’t negate someone’s else existence or feelings, even. I think feelings require re-shaping, rather than suppression. Take what I say with a grain of salt, however - I am not a doctor or a psychologist or an expect of human nature. I just borrowed insight from a website and tried to give it a useful application.

Being in love with someone you shouldn’t is painful. Moving past it is not easy.
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Thank you for this. Reshape the emotion into something positive and good? I like that. I’m going to work for that and pray for that. 🙂 Thank you so much.
 
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