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That’s true if it’s a one-time thing where you have to decide what it is you’re going to do. It’s different if it’s more the culture of the family or part of the overall behavior of an individual.Good penitential ideas posted by SuscipeMeDomine and Phemie. But I’m thinking that the average Catholic pewsitter did not pull out the list on Thursday and say, “okay, which one are we going to do this Friday? I know–how about we abstain from the Internet?”
Kids: “No–not that one!”
Dad: “Okay, we’ll say an Our Father on Friday evening.”
I abstain from meat on Fridays year round. It’s not something I have to think about in terms of “what am I going to do tomorrow?” It’s simply who I am and what I do so it’s no big deal. It requires a bit of planning – for example, if I’m going out to dinner on a Friday it’s not going to be at Meats R Us Restaurant – but it’s pretty straightforward.
In terms of the Internet, what if it was the family’s custom to take an electronic sabbath every Sunday? It wouldn’t be something to figure out from week to week, but simply a case of this is what this particular family does. Yes, various members of the family might find it difficult, but assuming the parents could explain why they had made this decision, it would be part of the family culture.
I have to admit that trying to determine what the penance should be from week to week seems kind of wonky to me. “Well, let’s see…tomorrow there’s that barbecue and I want to be able to eat steak so I’ll say an Our Father instead” or “This week the budget is kind of tight so I’ll skip the meat and save some money.”