Validating a marriage

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I know a couple-both Catholic-who were married outside of the Church and would like to have their marriage blessed by the Church.

The gentleman, however, has had a vasectomy. I know that, if confessed, a pentitent may be encouraged but not obligated to try to reverse the sterilization surgically. So, if one has sterilized themself, would this be an impediment to having the marriage blessed in the Church?
 
I know a couple-both Catholic-who were married outside of the Church and would like to have their marriage blessed by the Church.

The gentleman, however, has had a vasectomy. I know that, if confessed, a pentitent may be encouraged but not obligated to try to reverse the sterilization surgically. So, if one has sterilized themself, would this be an impediment to having the marriage blessed in the Church?
The operation itself is not an impediment to marriage. The impediment is “absolute antecedent impotence” At the same time, being open to the possibility of children is a necessary part of marriage–so the fact that the operation has been done makes this “openness” doubtful (indeed, it makes it nearly impossible). That part is an impediment. This couple realy needs to have a personal chat with the pastor, and be open and honest about the situation.
 
To continue:

Antecedent and perpetual impotence (whether absolute OR relative) invalidates a marriage (makes it impossible). Sterility by itself does not prohibit or invalidate marriage. Canon 1084.

Just wanted to be clear about what I posted earlier.

But again, the issue of being open to the possibility of children is very much a necessity for marriage. Please refer that couple to their own proper pastor.
 
To continue with the thoughts that Fr. David has posted (and this is not directly tied to the OP’s question, but might apply to related issues). If the vasectomy is not known to the prospective spouse then there might be an issue of fraud which could invalidate a marriage. This is something that needs to be addressed by the couple with the priest or deacon who is preparing them for marriage.

Deacon Ed
 
I’m interested to understand this more clearly. If a man (or woman) had an operation to be sterilised, and their spouse died, and they wanted to remarry, would they be able to?

From the posts above, it appears that the inability to have sexual intercourse is an impediment, but the infertility is not, even though produced artificially. Is this true?
 
I’m interested to understand this more clearly. If a man (or woman) had an operation to be sterilised, and their spouse died, and they wanted to remarry, would they be able to?

From the posts above, it appears that the inability to have sexual intercourse is an impediment, but the infertility is not, even though produced artificially. Is this true?
This one needs some explaining. Let’s start with the vocabulary.

For the situation to be an impediment to marriage, the impotence must be antecedent and perpetual.
Antecedent: the condition exists before the marriage. If the condition “occurs” anytime after the marriage has been consummated, it does not affect the validity of the marriage.
Perpetual: means that the impotence is “complete” and it is impossible for the marital act to occur–now or in the future. This is different from “happens sometimes” or even “happens most of the time”

Absolute: means that the man is completely incapable of the act, regardless of the circumstances.
Relative: the man cannot perform the act with a particular woman (ie the wife), but biologically speaking, it’s still possible.

Yes, sterility itself is not an impediment to marriage. Whether this is natural, or done by an operation, in itself it is not an impediment.

But at the same time, the fact that the couple must be open to the possibility of children is a requirement for a valid marriage, means that an operation to cause sterility calls into question that openness. It does not very strictly speaking make the marriage impossible or invalid. To put it another way, it’s not the operation but the intention which might make marriage impossible. Does that make sense?
 
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