I rarely involve myself in thing concerning matrimony but I will interject
one comment here, albeit one that is simplified:
In the Latin Church, the couple itself confers the sacrament and the Church is considered to be merely a “witness” to it, which explains why a deacon is permitted to officiate (and yes, I know full well that it involves the “approval” of the Church too - hence the minimum 6-month waiting period and the “conferences” etc etc etc (which, interestingly enough, doesn’t seem to have much of a positive effect on the number of failed unions, but I digress) - so please don’t cite canon law to me, but that doesn’t change the fact that the Church herself does not confer the sacrament).
In the East and Orient, however, the Church
does confer the sacrament (obviously with the consent of the couple involved) and so only a bishop or priest may officiate (and again, folks, please don’t cite canon law to me – I am (unfortunately) all too well aware of what I’ll call the “oddities” therein) . Yeah, OK, sure, the net effect is pretty much the same, but there are (theoretically, at least, even in the Churches in union with Rome) undeniable theological differences in the concept.
Alright … so much for my my unsolicited :twocents: which is probably worth less than half that.
Anyway, Happy Thanksgiving.