Validly Baptised Christian on RCIA told that he needed a Conditional Baptism

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Personally, if it were me, I would drop the whole thing and accept the conditional baptism. Yes, the parish/diocese may be making a mistake, but it is not a mistake of malice. They are truly worried about your immortal soul and making sure that you receive all the graces of baptism. They are probably erring too far on the side of caution.

But personally, I would just accept the conditional baptism, and move on from there. it sounds like there is a 99+% chance you are correct, but there is no harm nor injury to accept the conditional baptism.

Why delay the opportunity for you to receive the multitude of other graces from the rest of the sacraments??? You have Confession, Confirmation, and the EUCHARIST waiting for you.

That’s my opinion, and I hope you don’t let this tarnish or impede on your joy at this time when you are joining the Church!
Thank you for your post zz912.

I understand what you are saying and agree that there is no malice here at all. For me, the issue is that I cannot participate in any thing that casts doubt on something that I know to be true: That I was Baptised into Christ’s Church. This is not me being obstinate or pig headed or whatever. It is a matter of Principle and more. I am already Christ’s possession, bought with his blood and sealed by my free choice of Baptism into his Church
 
Thank you for your post zz912.

I understand what you are saying and agree that there is no malice here at all. For me, the issue is that I cannot participate in any thing that casts doubt on something that I know to be true: That I was Baptised into Christ’s Church. This is not me being obstinate or pig headed or whatever. It is a matter of Principle and more. I am already Christ’s possession, bought with his blood and sealed by my free choice of Baptism into his Church
I certainly understand that point of view. But with it being a Conditional Baptism, I would allow it to slide. You know that your baptism was valid, so this is not. But out of obedience to the Church that Jesus built (and who He gave authority to regulate the sacraments), I would submit in obedience and move forward. The conditional baptism is exactly that, conditional.

And this will allow you to come into His Church fully, and be Confirmed, and receive the Eucharist. Those are amazing fonts of grace waiting for you.

I know it is tough, but sometimes we have to be obedient even when we don’t agree with the decision of those in the Church. Since this instance is one where it is NOT denying the validity of your baptism, it is just saying that the Church wants to be ABSOLUTELY sure on this matter, as it involves your immortal soul. Offer up any inconvenience or uncomfortableness as an offering to Christ on the cross. Offer it up and join it to His sufferings and receive Him into your body and make it a perfect temple for Him.

Blessings!
 
I also had a conditional Baptism when I became Catholic and that is the one that I accept.
 
I do not think anyone is saying your Baptism in the other church did not have an impact on you.
Accept the conditional Baptism and take a step closer to God.
You will not regret it. The blessings will flow. To get hung up on this is to not walk the path that the Lord has set for you. Take the step. Leave your doubts behind and step into your new life in Christ. The Lord chose YOU. Be at peace.
God bless you.
 
I certainly understand that point of view. But with it being a Conditional Baptism, I would allow it to slide. You know that your baptism was valid, so this is not. But out of obedience to the Church that Jesus built (and who He gave authority to regulate the sacraments), I would submit in obedience and move forward. The conditional baptism is exactly that, conditional.

And this will allow you to come into His Church fully, and be Confirmed, and receive the Eucharist. Those are amazing fonts of grace waiting for you.

I know it is tough, but sometimes we have to be obedient even when we don’t agree with the decision of those in the Church. Since this instance is one where it is NOT denying the validity of your baptism, it is just saying that the Church wants to be ABSOLUTELY sure on this matter, as it involves your immortal soul. Offer up any inconvenience or uncomfortableness as an offering to Christ on the cross. Offer it up and join it to His sufferings and receive Him into your body and make it a perfect temple for Him.

Blessings!
Zz912,

Again, thanks for your post. I beleive that I am being obedient to Christ and his church by respecting my Baptism. Remember, The Church is the whole Body of Christ and not just it’s Catholic wing.

The whole issue of obedience is what I struggle most with regarding this issue. I have been attending the same Catholic parish while not being to partake of his Body and Blood. That is a huge burden for me, but I do it out of obedience. Am I showing a lack of obedience by trying to protect the sanctity of my Baptism? I don’t think so, primarily because it is the Catholic a churches own Law which makes clear that someone validly baptised should not under any circumstances be conditionally baptised. If the Bishop in your diocese ( or even the Pope ) told everyone to renounce Christ, would you do it out of obedience? Where do you draw the line? For me, the line is Canon Law and my own conciense

Mark
 
The whole issue of obedience is what I struggle most with regarding this issue. I have been attending the same Catholic parish while not being to partake of his Body and Blood. That is a huge burden for me, but I do it out of obedience. Am I showing a lack of obedience by trying to protect the sanctity of my Baptism? I don’t think so, primarily because it is the Catholic a churches own Law which makes clear that someone validly baptised should not under any circumstances be conditionally baptised. If the Bishop in your diocese ( or even the Pope ) told everyone to renounce Christ, would you do it out of obedience? Where do you draw the line? For me, the line is Canon Law and my own conciense
It seems to me that you are within your rights to fight this —up to a certain point.

As others have suggested, it’s a matter of weighing the costs. If your parish is causing unnecessary hardships to those seeking the sacraments then yes, it is good to ask for your rights. But if at some point it becomes obvious that this is not a battle that you can win (at least not without damaging your relationship with the Church) then it’s time to submit in obedience.

You may have already caused a rift between yourself and whoever came up with the guidelines for acceptance of the validity of baptisms for your parish and/or diocese. But that person hopefully is open to change when giving new evidence. But you also need to be open to any evidence that you might not have known.

If I were you I’d stick to your guns for now but I’d go with whatever suggestions the Chancellor of your diocese has to offer.
 
But you also need to be open to any evidence that you might not have known.

If I were you I’d stick to your guns for now but I’d go with whatever suggestions the Chancellor of your diocese has to offer.
Yes, ofcourse
 
Zz912,

Again, thanks for your post. I beleive that I am being obedient to Christ and his church by respecting my Baptism. Remember, The Church is the whole Body of Christ and not just it’s Catholic wing.

The whole issue of obedience is what I struggle most with regarding this issue. I have been attending the same Catholic parish while not being to partake of his Body and Blood. That is a huge burden for me, but I do it out of obedience. Am I showing a lack of obedience by trying to protect the sanctity of my Baptism? I don’t think so, primarily because it is the Catholic a churches own Law which makes clear that someone validly baptised should not under any circumstances be conditionally baptised. If the Bishop in your diocese ( or even the Pope ) told everyone to renounce Christ, would you do it out of obedience? Where do you draw the line? For me, the line is Canon Law and my own conciense

Mark
For whatever reason, the bishop determined that it was not a valid baptism.

You’ve shared with us that the bishop is still investigating and he may need to refer this question to the Holy See.

There’s nothing that can be done until the bishop makes his final decision on the matter–and that will, of course, depend on whether he decides that he does need to contact the Holy See and what their decision might be.

In the meantime, until that happens, there’s just nothing else to do but wait things out.
 
Correction: the bishop determined that the validity was questionable, not necessarily that it was invalid.

The point stands though, that the bishop made his decision. There’s nothing else that can be done until the bishop’s renewed investigation into the situation is completed.
 
Zz912,

Again, thanks for your post. I beleive that I am being obedient to Christ and his church by respecting my Baptism. Remember, The Church is the whole Body of Christ and not just it’s Catholic wing.

The whole issue of obedience is what I struggle most with regarding this issue. I have been attending the same Catholic parish while not being to partake of his Body and Blood. That is a huge burden for me, but I do it out of obedience. Am I showing a lack of obedience by trying to protect the sanctity of my Baptism? I don’t think so, primarily because it is the Catholic a churches own Law which makes clear that someone validly baptised should not under any circumstances be conditionally baptised. If the Bishop in your diocese ( or even the Pope ) told everyone to renounce Christ, would you do it out of obedience? Where do you draw the line? For me, the line is Canon Law and my own conciense

Mark
The Catholic Church IS the One Church She is not a wing. I don’t know if it was only my Diocese but back in the 50’s when my father converted everyone who was baptized in a protestant church was conditionally baptized. If I read you correctly you think that your protestant church is just one of the many wings as is the Catholic Church. If I believed that I would still be protestant. I’m a revert.

Annie
 
To the OP, I understand where you are coming from. The principle as I see it is that you are a Christian, a follower of Christ and have lived your life accordingly. I am sorry you had to delay your reception into the church because of this glitch. Its bureaucracy. It has no heart, it damages souls, it turns people away from the church. It turned me away. I have found those who run and volunteer for rcia do not have their aim and goal to save souls and join them to the church. They could care less who shows up for class, who drops out, etc. That is my experience.
 
To the OP, I understand where you are coming from. The principle as I see it is that you are a Christian, a follower of Christ and have lived your life accordingly. I am sorry you had to delay your reception into the church because of this glitch. Its bureaucracy. It has no heart, it damages souls, it turns people away from the church. It turned me away. I have found those who run and volunteer for rcia do not have their aim and goal to save souls and join them to the church. They could care less who shows up for class, who drops out, etc. That is my experience.
I realize from your many posts that you are very disappointed with your RCIA experience.
As many have offered, when something is not right, it’s time to seek out another program, rather than stay and be miserable. At some point a person has to take ownership of their journey. I can assure you that while not all RCIA programs have oodles of catechists and big budgets, most of them care deeply. They are deeply invested in their participants, and are eager and willing to walk the journey with the catechumens and candidates.
I’m sorry you had such a bad time, but please don’t lump everyone into your one experience.
It’s not helpful to anyone, particularly the OP who is trying to understand the process.
Peace,
pianist
 
Hello DCBrit.
Am I showing a lack of obedience by trying to protect the sanctity of my Baptism? I don’t think so, *primarily because it is the Catholic a churches own Law which makes clear that someone validly baptised should not under any circumstances be conditionally baptised. *If the Bishop in your diocese ( or even the Pope ) told everyone to renounce Christ, would you do it out of obedience? Where do you draw the line? For me, the line is Canon Law and my own conciense

Mark
I’m hoping you see the dividing line of enmity that the issue is becoming. It isn’t about obedience if you ask me but about acceptance. You need to decide for Christ. Even if you first Baptism is valid, you still are entering the Church. By continuing to try and distinguish who is right in this case, you are absentmindedly feeding a divisive issue. It is actually keeping you separated from Christ and His Church to continue to insist on acceptance of your Baptism earlier in your life. It isn’t God’s will for you to remain separated from Him and that is exactly what is going on. Please see this part and accept responsibility for your own soul. It is THAT important.

You have other Sacraments to receive - Confirmation, Confession, Holy Eucharist, maybe even Matrimony. Begin preparing for them as well. You have a whole lifetime of living this thing called Catholicism and the better prepared you are the closer your walk with God will be.

Do His will for you. It is that simple. Choice is yours. No one else can do it for you.

Glenda
 
Zz912,

Again, thanks for your post. I beleive that I am being obedient to Christ and his church by respecting my Baptism. Remember, The Church is the whole Body of Christ and not just it’s Catholic wing.

The whole issue of obedience is what I struggle most with regarding this issue. I have been attending the same Catholic parish while not being to partake of his Body and Blood. That is a huge burden for me, but I do it out of obedience. Am I showing a lack of obedience by trying to protect the sanctity of my Baptism? I don’t think so, primarily because it is the Catholic a churches own Law which makes clear that someone validly baptised should not under any circumstances be conditionally baptised. If the Bishop in your diocese ( or even the Pope ) told everyone to renounce Christ, would you do it out of obedience? Where do you draw the line? For me, the line is Canon Law and my own conciense

Mark
I don’t understand how you are ‘protecting’ your baptism. How is it threatened? If you have a valid Baptism, then you will just be getting wet. Conditional baptism is just insurance.

As others have stated, it is what it is. The Bishop has made a determination. If you wish to pursue it, then you are delaying your entrance into the church. You have to decide what is more important to you. Though I’ll say it doesn’t sound to me like you quite trust the Church yet - maybe it’s not time for you to become a Catholic if you aren’t willing to submit. I suggest you pray for discernment on this issue.
 
Rather than think this is bureaucracy, it’s just being thorough. “Conditional” is “just in case,” in the vernacular.

Perhaps, after all has been determined, you can piggy back onto another parish that has a different schedule and be received in (without having to wait until next Easter).
 
I don’t understand how you are ‘protecting’ your baptism. How is it threatened? If you have a valid Baptism, then you will just be getting wet. Conditional baptism is just insurance.

As others have stated, it is what it is. The Bishop has made a determination. If you wish to pursue it, then you are delaying your entrance into the church. You have to decide what is more important to you. Though I’ll say it doesn’t sound to me like you quite trust the Church yet - maybe it’s not time for you to become a Catholic if you aren’t willing to submit. I suggest you pray for discernment on this issue.
I am protecting the sanctity of my Baptism by not agreeing to take part in a Conditional Baptism ceremony (unless there is a serious and substantive reason to doubt the validity of my original Baptism ). Conditional Baptisms are performed because there is a doubt about the validity of the Baptism of the individual in question. When I was Baptised ,I died to my old self and rose to a new life in Christ. I am a royal person, being transformed into his image and walking the path he has laid out for me. The irony is that my stance on this issue is entirely in tune with Canon Law.

One of the original intentions when I started this thread was to be able to help other people who are in a similar situation who come after me and come looking here for information on what happened to other people in their situation. In that light this will be my last post on this thread unless I have an update to post. I feel that I have fully explained myself and my reasoning.

Thanks for your support everyone, if you want to PM me then by all means other than that I’ll just be posting updates on this thread from now on

God Bless

Mark
 
I am protecting the sanctity of my Baptism by not agreeing to take part in a Conditional Baptism ceremony (unless there is a serious and substantive reason to doubt the validity of my original Baptism ). Conditional Baptisms are performed because there is a doubt about the validity of the Baptism of the individual in question. When I was Baptised ,I died to my old self and rose to a new life in Christ. I am a royal person, being transformed into his image and walking the path he has laid out for me. The irony is that my stance on this issue is entirely in tune with Canon Law.

One of the original intentions when I started this thread was to be able to help other people who are in a similar situation who come after me and come looking here for information on what happened to other people in their situation. In that light this will be my last post on this thread unless I have an update to post. I feel that I have fully explained myself and my reasoning.

Thanks for your support everyone, if you want to PM me then by all means other than that I’ll just be posting updates on this thread from now on

God Bless

Mark
Oh my goodness.
Many people all over the world believe that they have died to self and have accepted Christ. But are not validly Baptized.
If your Baptism is in question, then fix it and move on with your life in Christ.
If the Church is not positive, I don’t know how you can be positive that THE MINISTER THAT BAPTIZED YOU DID IT IN ACCORDANCE WITH HOW IT SHOULD BE DONE.
It has not that much to do with your state of mind at the time.
You can be properly disposed. But that does not mean that the minister did it properly.
THAT is what is in question, NOT your state of mind as a Christian. The RITE is obviously in question, not your belief.
Not many people have gone through you as you allege.
You have to remember that it’s not just about you. The Priest who Baptizes you has a responsibility to God. He was not there when you were Baptized in the other church. He can’t peer through a glass to see the event or listen in to the exact wording.
I agree that maybe you’re not really wanting to join the Church.
This detail should not be enough to derail your conversion.
I’ll pray for you.
What’s more important? Your pride, your need to be “right” or your entry into the Church?
I would much rather be “positive” than depend on my own recollection.
When I work with RCIA candidates and Catechumens, they want to do everything by the book. I have never encountered anyone who put up a fuss over conditional Baptism. They are just relieve to have it done correctly. As Miserissima said “just in case”.
God bless you.
 
I am protecting the sanctity of my Baptism by not agreeing to take part in a Conditional Baptism ceremony (unless there is a serious and substantive reason to doubt the validity of my original Baptism ). Conditional Baptisms are performed because there is a doubt about the validity of the Baptism of the individual in question. When I was Baptised ,I died to my old self and rose to a new life in Christ. I am a royal person, being transformed into his image and walking the path he has laid out for me. The irony is that my stance on this issue is entirely in tune with Canon Law.

One of the original intentions when I started this thread was to be able to help other people who are in a similar situation who come after me and come looking here for information on what happened to other people in their situation. In that light this will be my last post on this thread unless I have an update to post. I feel that I have fully explained myself and my reasoning.

God Bless

Mark
I have looked at your posts and your reasoning. Perhaps there are other issues that should come into play, or other ways of looking at the matter which may help your discernment process.

I can assure you that the Church is every bit as interested in protecting the sanctity of any valid baptism as you are; and in fact, they are more interested in protecting it. The Church has a 2000 year history of protecting the sanctity of baptism, as exemplified by issues addressed in the past concerning the necessity of baptism, and the fact that the Church does not consider some baptisms to be valid (for example, LDS baptisms, and yes, I know this specific does not apply to you). There is a list of denominations which the Church specifically says do not have valid baptisms. The fact that there is a list is not necessarily indicative that any denomination not on the list does have a valid baptism, however.

I have seen repeatedly that there are somewhere near 30,000 groups calling themselves Christian (and I don’t know who did the counting), and the reality is that there continue to be groups seemingly coming out of nowhere (that is, not an identifiable split of an existing denomination); there are also some splits which may be circumspect.

All of which goes to support the issue that Protestant denominations do not have clear line of authority. They find their authority in the Bible, and yet they contradict one another in exactly what the Bible says and what it means for us today here and now. Authority, such as the Catholic Church holds out, is rejected.

Becoming a Catholic in part means accepting the authority of the Church; and that authority includes authority over the validity of each and every sacrament. It is the Church’s authority, given by Christ to the Church and specifically to Peter, and handed down from him to other bishops of Rome, which gets rejected; individuals feel that they have the authority to decide issues - thus resulting in the multitude of denominations.

Let’s put this another way: one of the Pentecostal denominations is one the Church holds does not perform valid baptisms. I am aware that is not your background; but if we have an adult, who was baptized as an adult by that group approach the Church to join, and they took the same position as you do - that they were there, they know what happened, and they know it to be valid - there would be a significant problem with their entry under those conditions. It would be the Church, not they, who had the authority to determine the validity.

That would not be a challenge to what you felt, in your heart of hearts, to the bottom of your soles, in all purity and faithfulness. It would be the Church’s. It would not be about feelings; it would be about the reality of the Church’s decision that the Pentecostal baptism was not valid, period.

For all I know, your baptism may be found to be valid, and you would only need to make a professions of faith and be admitted to the rest of the sacraments.

The question, however, is this: suppose, for the moment, that the Church either says that the prior baptism is not valid, or they cannot make a determination from the facts presented. If they determine it is not valid, will you go forward to be baptized, or stand on your current belief in its validity and not submit to a baptism in the Church?

And if the Church says it cannot make a determination, and requests you be conditionally baptized, will you be willing to be conditionally baptized?

And if the Church says that it finds the prior baptism valid, what will be your response? An “I told you so”?

Will there be a spilling over to other areas the Church stands firm on (for the sake of identifying something, and an area where there is a great deal of dispute with the official stance, let’s take abortion and contraception). Are you willing to accept the Church’s position that in matters of faith and morals, it stands in the place of Christ, and that when it acts in faith and morals, it is acting in the place of, and with the authority granted by, Christ?

I ask this, because I get the impression from your posts that you seem to feel that you have the authority to make this call on your prior baptism. A conditional baptism does not in any way denigrate a prior valid baptism; that is why it is specifically conditional, a point you seem either to not understand, or not accept.

Please don’t misunderstand me; there are plenty of people self-identifying as Catholics, who feel their personal interpretation of faith and morals is superior to the Church’s. It is not solely a Protestant issue. Ultimately we need to submit our will to Christ’s. And the method He set up is through the Church He founded upon the Rock - Peter. Are you ready for that?
 
Update:

I called the Chancellor of the Diocese today to ask for an update. He will lbw writing to the Minster of the Community Church where I got Baptised and then submit everything to Rome.

So, this is likely to be a long drawn out process. He will keep me informed at every stage of the process
 
I must be missing something. You not only have full knowledge of the event, but you also have witnesses and a DVD. What is the reason given for the doubt?
 
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