You’re welcome, Mark.
First of all, read this:
catholicnewsagency.com/column.php?n=1145
The nuns told us that the Mass was now in English to encourage fuller participation by the people. That’s it. You have to understand the mindset of people living in the United States in the early 1960s. That’s the key. Christianity was highly respected. There was a Nativity in front of our local City Hall (I’ll get back to that in a moment), the Federal government told people we were is a struggle not just with Communism, but
Godless Communism, and the newspapers, radio and television all reflected our Christian values. Wholesome entertainment, modesty and restraint in speech and dress and respect for your parents was the norm. Divorce was rare. Most families were stable. We were taught to be polite to our elders, and to simply not annoy the few ‘bad apples’ in our neighborhood. These were people who acted inappropriately at times. We should still be polite but not give them occasion to act out when we were nearby. Example: There was a woman next door who was enraged when one of my small plastic rockets ended up on her lawn and I would ‘step on her grass’ to retrieve it.
Restraint and living out your faith as being good neighbors was the order of the day. We lived as a community with
shared values. You could say it was easy to be Catholic at the time. It was considered normal and as a boy, reinforced by the wonderful role models around me. I looked forward to being a similar adult.
Trust was the other part of the equation. We trusted the media, our government and the people around us. We looked out for each other, and didn’t lock our doors at night. My house was much like everybody else’s house and we all offered hospitality to each other. But that would be our undoing, from young to old. We did not know that dissidents inside and outside the Church wanted to attack it, the media, and our way of life. We welcomed the stranger who preached “freedom” but offered us nothing but lies. The trusting types that we were could not understand, until it was too late, that they wanted every aspect of our society turned upside down. They wanted things to be their way.
Vatican II became the scapegoat. Another lie. And the lie was: somewhere, somehow, Vatican II led to the social upheaval that followed it. That’s just not true.