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That’s okay if you don’t get it.I honestly just don’t get forced celibacy, let the priest choose it if he wants to remain unmarried. But I can’t understand any good reasoning why priests can’t be married. The fact that there ARE married Catholic priests in the East seems to throw a wrench in most explanations because it would outright contradict the whole “bride of Christ” reasoning.
Let them marry what’s the big deal? They married for one thousands years before this law was made iron clad. If you want to get back to the ancient church then married Bishops and priests shouldn’t be a big deal at all.
A man enters the seminary knowing full well he will have to accept a single life, married only to the church. It will become his full time, all consuming life. He is not forced.
As an experiment… try to consider yourself (if you are now married) obligated to be of service 24/7 to an average parish. Which will come first… your spiritual children or your physical children… your physical spouse, or your marriage to the church.
Or… if your boss decided to work you whenever he wanted, day or night, every day. You might object, saying no because you have a life. A priest does not have that option. He is a priest for life…
I have a good pastor… and I get figitty(?) if he is even gone for a week.