Venerable Matt Talbot

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was a Dublin laborer who began drinking at age 12 and became a chronic alcoholic for 16 years. He overcame his addiction and lived a holy life. He is now proposed for sainthood and role model for chronic drinkers. For more information: www.matt-talbot.org.
 
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was a Dublin laborer who began drinking at age 12 and became a chronic alcoholic for 16 years. He overcame his addiction and lived a holy life. He is now proposed for sainthood and role model for chronic drinkers. For more information: www.matt-talbot.org.
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Will the real Matt Talbot please stand up?

Last sunday, at the Annual Luncheon for us Legion of Mary Auxiliaries, my Godmother asked if I knew of Matt Talbot. I said no. She suggested that I might want to look him up as an early example of a reformed alcoholic before AA came along?

“Reformed”?

Never mind, I went on the Internet, and found at least three versions of Matt Talbot.

The first version can be seen in the Matt Talbot Retreat Groups, here in the USA. Matt is regarded as a recovered alcoholic working a version of the 12 steps before they were formalized by Bill W. in 1939. Matt Talbot retreats are just 12 step retreats under a different name, open to all regardless of religion

No problem there, AA has always insisted that there is nothing new about the 12 steps, other then the way they are presented to the alcoholic. Instead of “this is what you must do”, they are infomed that “this is what we did”. But the basic spiritual concepts of AA have been around for at least 2,000 years.

The second version is best seen in the Pioneer Total Abstinence Association in Ireland. Matt is a REFORMED Alcoholic. You can look it up if you want, but the required pledge mentions the sin of intemperence. “Sin”?

The Catholic Church in the USA no longer accepts that. We alcoholics are not sinners trying to become saints, nor bad people trying to become good, but sick people trying to become well. Ask for help from a Priest, and he will refer you to AA. You may also ask for, and receive, The Annointing Of The Sick.

Which brings us to the book TO SLACK A THIRST, by Philip Maynard. This is a book about getting sober that does not use AA, but does use the spiritual principles used by Matt, and it is fascinating reading for someone like me. Of course I am one of those who sobered up in AA, but now maintain that sobriety in the Catholic Church AS WELL AS IN AA.

Sub-titled THE MATT TALBOT WAY TO SOBRIETY, it involves a simple prayer program, very much like what I am already doing. Philip claims that he sobered up this way without AA, and others can also. And I can believe it.

Unlike the regular 12 step programs, you start with step 11 and work from there. It is assumed you have a belief in Christ as True God and True man. You forgo alcohol (or whatever) as an expression of your love for Jesus.

Obviously, this would never have worked for me 23 years ago. But I note his suggested prayers are very much along the lines of what I am doing now as a Franciscan 1221 penitent. Indeed, later on Matt became a Franciscan Tertiary. Maynard tends to play down Matt’s later adventures into mortifications, as not what is needed for staying sober. Probably true, although a lot of critics tend to concentrate on the mortifications themselves rather then Matt’s sobriety and Christian living.

All in all, a lot to think about. Matt Talbot is now a Venerable. Sainthood is a long way off. You need two authentic miracles. Thousands and thousands of Catholic alcoholic have prayed to Matt for help in getting sober and staying sober. It works. It really does. But that is not the kind of miracle the Church wants.
 
I pray every day for his canonization. (include it in my rosary) He has saved my some of family from total destruction from alcoholism. (he and The Blessed Mother) His intervention has been a bonified miracle and he has helped our family with this not once but twice in the past. He is the patron of alcoholics, soooo…I am wondering what kind of miracle the Church requires of him?:confused: Really glad that I spotted your post as this has been a question in my mind for quite some time. According to one of the web sites you mentioned he has single handedly intervened in many many alcoholic’s illnesses and has literally turned lives around. In my (simple way) of thinking, if those aren’t miracles, I don’t know what miracles are! Let’s look at it another way; if the Church classify’s alcoholism as an illness, and he has intervened to cure these people (or even stop the progression of the illness if they want to be picky) , why is that not a miracle? I guess I just don’t get it.:confused:
 
Maybe they are waiting for all these people to die sober as proof of a real “cure”. 😃 :confused:
 
Which brings us to the book TO SLACK A THIRST, by Philip Maynard. This is a book about getting sober that does not use AA, but does use the spiritual principles used by Matt, and it is fascinating reading for someone like me. Of course I am one of those who sobered up in AA, but now maintain that sobriety in the Catholic Church AS WELL AS IN AA.

Sub-titled THE MATT TALBOT WAY TO SOBRIETY, it involves a simple prayer program, very much like what I am already doing. Philip claims that he sobered up this way without AA, and others can also. And I can believe it.

Unlike the regular 12 step programs, you start with step 11 and work from there. It is assumed you have a belief in Christ as True God and True man. You forgo alcohol (or whatever) as an expression of your love for Jesus.

Obviously, this would never have worked for me 23 years ago. But I note his suggested prayers are very much along the lines of what I am doing now as a Franciscan 1221 penitent. Indeed, later on Matt became a Franciscan Tertiary. Maynard tends to play down Matt’s later adventures into mortifications, as not what is needed for staying sober. Probably true, although a lot of critics tend to concentrate on the mortifications themselves rather then Matt’s sobriety and Christian living.

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I have read this book and though I have done it a little differently I believe it is more helpful then 12 step programs for people that can or want to put thier trust in God. I’m a “recovered” alcoholic much in the same vein as Matt Talbot. It was giving myself to the Love of Christ that allowed me to want to be sober in the first place, so I figure I started with the 11th step. Though I give support to others in 12 step programs, I quit going to AA meetings for they made think about drinking to much, (and I think a few AAs, not ALL, have made idols out of the program and Bill W), I replaced those meetings with daily mass, my personal devotionals and a couple meetings a month at a Christ Center recovery group. 🙂
 
I love Matt Talbot. I’m asking him to pray for my brother to recover from alcoholism. I don’t think my brother realizes that he has a drinking problem–or at least doesn’t admit it.

He’s left the church too.

I’m so encouraged by Matt Talbot’s story. The big difference I think in my brother’s life is that my brother has succombed to impurity and Matt Talbot even in his alcoholism never did.

I’d like to get him a book or dvd on Matt Talbot’s life. But, I think he’d be really angry at me since he denies he has a problem. Maybe I could get it for all my sibs just saying that I fell in love with Matt Talbot and wanted to share his story.

Is that too pushy?

Any suggestions for a book or dvd. The one I read is very old and I think it’s too difficult for him to read. ?

Maybe I should just keep praying. Will you pray for my brother Greg?
 
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Maybe I should just keep praying. Will you pray for my brother Greg?
Yes, I will. And may I suggest that, if you have not done so already, you attend a few meetings of Al-Anon? Al-anon is for the family and friends of alcoholics, and offers the same 12-step program of living.
 
I love Matt Talbot. I’m asking him to pray for my brother to recover from alcoholism. I don’t think my brother realizes that he has a drinking problem–or at least doesn’t admit it.

He’s left the church too.

I’m so encouraged by Matt Talbot’s story. The big difference I think in my brother’s life is that my brother has succombed to impurity and Matt Talbot even in his alcoholism never did.

I’d like to get him a book or dvd on Matt Talbot’s life. But, I think he’d be really angry at me since he denies he has a problem. Maybe I could get it for all my sibs just saying that I fell in love with Matt Talbot and wanted to share his story.

Is that too pushy?

Any suggestions for a book or dvd. The one I read is very old and I think it’s too difficult for him to read. ?

Maybe I should just keep praying. Will you pray for my brother Greg?
**Since your brother is in denial and has left the Church, I would not recommend giving him a Matt Talbot book at this time.
As for you personally I would recommend going to some open AA meetings, which are open to the public to listen to alcoholics tell their stories and to consider attending Al-Anon.
At some point you and others might consider a professional intervention, which focses on how your brother’s drinking behavior is affecting you and others.

Peace be with you during this difficult time.

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Any suggestions for a book or dvd. The one I read is very old and I think it’s too difficult for him to read. ?

Maybe I should just keep praying. Will you pray for my brother Greg?
Keep praying and don’t be pushy, just let your brother know you care.

You could go to this web site matttalbotretreats.org/lit_info.htm
and request a copies of these booklets. The retreat society is not a resource for him (it is for those already in recovery), but the booklets might be.
18. “The Mystery of Matt Talbot” - A 27 page booklet by Fr. Morgan Costelloe, former Vice-Postulator of the Cause of Matt Talbot. It explains the spiritual program that Matt Talbot adhered to in overcoming his alcoholism********19. “Matt Talbot - Hope for Addicts”******** - A 30 page booklet by Fr. Morgan Costelloe,*

20. “In The Spirit Of Our Program”* - A 32 page booklet containing prayers for morning, quiet time, and evening, recovery reflections, suggested guidelines for daily meditation, and a description of Matt Talbot.

21. “The Making of Matt Talbot”**** - Thirty two page biography of Matt Talbot by Mary Purcell
You can e-mail your request here. secy@matttalbotretreats.org
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Maybe I should just keep praying. Will you pray for my brother Greg?
contiued from above

Don’t stop praying
Another recovery program you might consider for yourself, yes those that have family members that alcoholics and addicts need recovery too, is Celebrate Recovery. You can find out if there are any CR Groups in your in your area by going to celebraterecovery.com/global.shtml . CR is a Christ centered program for people with many types of addictions, hurts and hang ups. Personally I don’t think any one does their best in recovery without putting Christ first, though I know many in AA do. I know many AAs/NAs that do both.

The big plus for me is that CR has small groups for all of these problems and more: which many of those that are addicted to drugs and alcohol have root connection to.

****CodependentMen’s groups andwomen’s groups

Abuse - Twelve Steps for Abused Women
http://www.celebraterecovery.com/SmallGroups/abuse_Women.shtml

ACA - Adult Children of Chemically AddictedMen’s groups andwomen’s groups

Anger - Men

Anger - Women

Chemically DependentMen’s groups andwomen’s groups

Codependent Women Codependent Women in a Relationship with Sexually Addicted Men

Eating DisordersWomen’s group

http://www.celebraterecovery.com/SmallGroups/food_addiction_women.shtml

Love & Relationship AddictionWomen’s group

Sexual Addiction - Men

Sexual Addiction - Women

Sexual/Physical/Emotional AbuseWomen’s group

Where ever God leads you, know that your brother’s problems are not your fault. and through God al things are possible.
 
What Jesus did was, and had to be, for the actions of Jesus can be put into one word “Mercy”
Jesus is the complete being and action of God’s mercy over His children. God who is LOVE knows no end to lovinig His children.

To me I think Iunderstand this to be!
How do you think?

Godbless
 
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