No. You are misreading here. Scripture is speaking metaphorically here. It is true we are totally responsible for how our personality ( the phychological and moral " self " ) develops.
Christ knows the evildoers alright, but he will treat them as though he did not know them. They will have chosen their fate by intentionally disregarding and ignoring Christ and his teaching. Now he will ignore them and leave their fate in the hands of those totally superior and absolutely evil demons of hell. Not a pleasant thought. And we can ignore it all we want, we can deny it all we want, but we cannot avoid making a choice with our every thought and act. Makes one pause, doesn’t it. We should be thinking of it all the time ( at least in our subconscious ).
Again, it is better to use " create " in its philosophical/theological sense. This helps eliminate confusion.
There is a rich Biblical tradition concerning the word “know” as a unitive and creative act. When a man and woman come to “know” each other, the result is a child. That is not a metaphor, the child is a being of its own right. When God “knows” something, it comes into being or existence. That is not a metaphor, that statement expresses a reality far more substantial than our knowledge can conceive.
“No one knows who the Son is except the Father, and no one knows who the Father is except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.” (Luke 10:22)
Consider the above in light of Trinitarian theology that inadequately portrays the Son as the Father’s perfect self-knowledge. The Son proceeds from the Father as a perfect act of omniscient self-knowledge. The “knowledge” of the Father is the Son. So when the Son, “chooses to reveal” the Father, it is the light, the illuminating knowledge of the Son that brings us, as human persons, into being, just as the knowledge of the Father brings the Son into being, eternally. Our knowledge of ourselves if “in tune” with the Son’s knowledge of us, brings us into being, i.e., actualizes us. In fact, it is God’s knowledge of us that brings us into being. However, if we choose to “disconnect” ourselves from the Son’s actualizing knowledge of us, then, like the branch that severs itself from the tree, we, as persons, become less real, less actualized and more illusory. We are separated from God, from Truth and, ultimately, from Being itself.
The difference between the nature of God and the nature of man is that God exists necessarily because God’s nature is “to be.” His nature is to exist. God is Being itself. Our nature is contingent upon the Being of God. We do not exist by some essential quality in human nature because our nature is contingent upon God bringing us into being, sharing existence with us. We exist to the extent that we participate or share in existence, but that sharing is not necessary, it is contingent upon the will and knowledge of God.
Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God — children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God. (John 1:12)
What does “born of God” mean if not sharing, by participation, i.e., adoption, in the Being of God? Otherwise, there is no difference between merely being born of natural descent, human decision or will, and being “born of God.”
Reread my last two posts in light of this.
I am not saying we “create” our “selves” as God creates, but we do originate the kind of self that, if endorsed by God, is actualized into being by him. Self is only actually realized as an interplay between our will and God’s. On our own we cannot actualize what we conceive self to be. That would be a kind of spiritual masturbation, a self-love that goes nowhere precisely because God’s (name removed by moderator)ut is missing. We do not receive God, therefore we cannot be born of God, i.e., be fully actualized as existing “selves.”
Yet to all who received him,… he gave the right to become children of God … born of God. (John 1:12)
Incidentally, this explains why all forms of sexual auto-eroticism and homosexual love are inherently distortions of a much greater reality, the creative love of God. Doing things “our way” by shutting out God will only end in termination because there is no “power” to endure or create from contingency.