I have to agree with the contemporary critics of the Victorian Era, at least the VE as it happened in the US.
To begin with, the social conditions as described by Charles Dickens were very accurate, and much of what he described happened in the US as well as the UK.
Slaves in the South were not the only ones oppressed. Newly arrived immigrants, especially if they were Catholic or Jewish were really taken advantage of.
It was widely believed during the VE that a woman’s place was “Children, Cooking, and Church” in that order,
The Sexual Mores of the age were really hypocritical. Proper woman were expected to be “above sexual endeavor”, and any woman , even ones wife, was condemned as wanton if she had an orgasm. There was little to no legitimate employment for women outside the home. If for some reason, a woman did not have close family, or was deserted by her husband for any reason, the only way she could survive was through prostitution
There were brothals in every town in the US. For many women, They were the male social clubs of that day…and women had no say in the matter. Men could do anything they wanted!
Social change in the US did not occur until the end of the American Civil War. In its aftermath, the immigrants became citizens and got the right to vote. In particular, the Irish excelled in politics which brought social change. Then, in 1920 women got the right to vote in the US. That, combined with women getting jobs in offices and shops, and the ability of the average man to own an automobile (which gave young couples the privacy they never had in their own homes) spelled the end of wide spread prostitution.
However, it wasn’t until the late 1960’s and 1970s did public attitudes change and people publically admitted to what they had been doing in private all along.
So, open your eyes. You do not have to accept modern thinking such as relativism, but you cannot expect to be able to counter it if you do not know about it and how it works. You have to face up to the fact as you learn in any university, there is no thing as “the good old days”. In today’s society, at least in Western Europe and North America, you have a much easier life ahead of you than existed ever before in history. At the same time, you will find keeping your Faith and Moral Values will be more difficult. At least in Western Society, no one is being forced to die for their religious beliefs.