paramedicgirl:
You are fortunate that you can have Eucharistic adoration 24 hours a day. We only have it on the First Friday of the month, and then only for 1 hour before Mass.
I guess I’m one of those people who don’t go to Mass to socialize or to chat afterwards with others. I just want to pray and often I can’t because there is so much noise from everyone who thinks it is a social event. I guess that’s why I don’t bother worrying about others at Mass. There are already too many distractions. That’s why I said I never look around at other people in Mass. It wasn’t to offend you. Sorry for coming across that way.
oh, ok. Thanks for taking the time to clear the matter up, I really appreciate it.
We have Adoration every Wednesday from 7am - 7pm, but the tabernacle is accessible from sunrise to about 10pm daily.
The Mass always has been a communal event. We are always able to be alone with God the rest of the day, week, month, year, but it is through the Mass the community of believers gather to rejoice in the Good News and celebrate the Resurrection.
It’s a family gathering, not an private engagement between you and Jesus alone. If you weren’t introduced to the Mass in that light perhaps that’s why you are bothered by the ‘distractions’. Certainly if you were expecting the Mass to be something you observe but don’t participate in you’d be disappointed with all the commotion, but if you were expecting the Mass to be a homecoming of sorts, Jesus inviting all of us to come over to his house for dinner, you’d probably be better able to appreciate that hour with others.
The entire liturgy is designed with this ‘coming over to the feast’ theme…
We gather in song and welcoming prayer.
We then apologize to our host and everyone around us for anything we may have done since we last gathered which may have offended anyone else (not just Jesus, everyone else in His family). All differences are set aside so that we can enjoy this time together.
We sit down to hear stories from our past and of our host so we can remember why we are one family, how we fit into the family tree.
Then before we move into the dining area we offer our petitions and prayers, each member of the family sharing their concerns and asking for our help and support.
And then we come to the table where the host invites us to eat and drink, but we take time out to prepare ourselves (kind of like washing our hands before we sit down at the table).
Afterward, we thank our host for inviting us, for the wonderful meal, we wish him well, he wishes us well - until we meet again.
Our parish has the problem of not having an adequate reception area en route to the church so the socializing does pose a distraction for those trying to prepare themselves for the Mass to begin. We are trying to find a way to get the reverence for the tabernacle and Mass back without losing the spirit of the gathering because our priests want to see the hour before Mass become a silent one of reflection, so I really like the way your church has the exposed Eucharist an hour before Mass. I may suggest that to our liturgy committee next week. It may really make the difference we are seeking.