I have been following this thread, waiting to see what sort of practical vocation advice would be given only to watch it fall victim to the inevitable liturgical sniping.
I have to say, I’m always mildly suprised when someone looking to pursue a religious/priestly vocation tries to pick an order based on liturgy alone. I would think determining whether you are called to the charism of the order (e.g. contemplation & preaching for the Dominicans; radical eremitic poverty & detachment for the Carmelites) would be more important. But that may just be a female perspective.
OP, I don’t think there’s anything wrong in having a devotion to the TLM. However, I
strongly take issue with the statement below (my emphases.)
Why is our Holy Father restoring reception of Holy Communion while kneeling and Gregorian Chant, two practices inherent in the traditional liturgy?
The bolded bit of your post above is a major cause of the sniping on this board. To say that Gregorian chant and kneeling for Communion are “inherent in the traditional liturgy” is baloney- simply untrue.
I hope other posters will forgive me for being repetitive, but I say that your statement is untrue because I have experienced the opposite. I’ve attended a OF parish almost all my life where the Mass was offered in Latin, with chant, with Communion distributed at the altar rail. (In fact, I learned a heck of a lot more chant (responses, multiple Mass settings, hymns, antiphons, sequences, Psalm tones) than I
ever would have at my local TLM, as chant wasn’t often used in High Masses there.) There is
no reason why these practices could not be continued in the OF Mass. They are not out of place; the “New Mass” does not reject them.
Traditionalists lament that Vatican II severed Church from its traditions, but then with statements like “chant and Communion kneeling are inherent to the TLM” they sever the thread of tradition themselves! I’m sorry to rant but this sort of thing really annoys me.
Back to the topic of vocation-- it is true that most religious communities (especially monastic ones) will not accept candidates until they are debt free. (Because the community has to provide part or all of food, shelter, clothing, medical expenses for all its members, it really can’t assume debt.) However, if you are serious about joining a community debt (even large amounts) can be dealt with fairly easily.
I paid off the last bit of my student loans (roughly $10, 000) in 6 months (despite living in pricey CA and not making much money) by having roommates, cutting
all unecessary spending, not driving a car (this may not be practical for everyone.)
I believe there is an organization, the St. Joseph Labre Foundation, that will help you fundraise in your parish & community to pay off your debt.
Finally, if you have found the community you are called to, God will provide. I know a (now) nun who had a bit more student loan debt than you. It was a major obstacle to her entrance to the monastery until one of the monastery’s anonymous donors agreed to take on her student loans.