Vocations for homosexuals?

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I know of one gay teacher from our public school system who became a deacon. “He doesn’t have a kitchen, but he has a Catholic chapel,” I was told.

I believe I suggested the secular institutes in an earlier post. One may have to be created for them.

A Camaldolese Oblate who was a converted gay died of AIDS. I have fielded vocational inquiries from those struggling with SSA. I know there is something that can be done to minister to their desires of belong to God while fighting this super struggle of theirs. Since Our Lady in her representation of Marie Mediatrice has a rainbow, I suggest they utilize the image and ask her help under that title.

Blessings,
Cloisters
Thankfully the gay rainbow is not perfect as it only has six stripes. Terrible that they adopted such a sign.
 
I don’t think it’s true for ALL who experience SSA, that celibacy would not be a renunciation of one good for a greater good. The fact of the matter is, men were still made for women and, provided those with SSA have reason to believe they could still complete the marital act with a woman, they are as free to marry as any other man. I experience some degree of SSA, and I am discerning a vocation (and am applying to seminary now), but for me, celibacy is sure as heck going to be a renunciation! (But all for the greater glory of God!) Just because any given man has SSA does not mean he is incapable of having desires for a wife and a family, and to be a father. A man like this probably does not have “deep-seated homosexual tendencies.”

Now, perhaps some who do experience SSA have the problem that an above poster mentioned - that they consider their SSA so much a part of their identity - i.e., they have “deep-seated homosexual tendencies”. And I think this is when they cannot be admitted to seminary, because they are so fully entrenched in their “homosexual” identity that their relationships with people are damaged and they would not be able to carry out priestly duties properly. These people would also probably not make good fathers and in most cases should not marry. I do think that many men in this situation can go from “deep-seated” to not deep-seated, provided they get the necessary help, and it would probably involve some sort of spiritual counseling/healing in addition to whatever else.
Exactly so; thank you. The need is for honesty and self knowledge. Knowing our limitations is a way to wholeness withing the Church
 
Just to clarify, I am a new Catholic and I have a lot of friends who are homosexual who don’t understand why I am becoming Catholic. I seek to understand the church better, so this is purely an academic question.
 
Please correct me if I am wrong, but I am under the assumption that:
  1. Transsexuals (surgery & hormones) would only qualify for a lay association, and the only possible form of commitment would be an oblation, unless they are permitted to become Dedicated Laity. Transgenders (gender identity is confused) would fall into this category, as well. With a transsexual, the DNA is still of the sex with which they were born.
  2. Those who are not making an attempt to bring their SSA under control would not qualify for the religious life. There is no “third lifestyle.”
  3. IMHO a secular institute would be a good place for persons with controlled SSA, if religious orders won’t accept them.
  4. The priesthood is completely off-limits to those who are openly SSA. I’ve heard that if the man can keep himself under control for three years he would be considered for the priesthood.
We are all called to emulate the angels – celibate love and service to God. Conjugal relations are for a narrow window of about a week between one man and one woman who are sacramentally married.

“Deny yourself; take up your cross; and follow Me,” says the Lord. In that case, the “deny yourself” would be the process of “aquitting” the SSA.

Blessings,
Cloisters
There is the consecrated single life
 
There is the consecrated single life
There is No provision in canon law for private vows.

If a lesbian is a physical virgin, she could discern consecrated virginity. CV is the original ‘bride of Christ’, so if she is attracted to women, how will she relate to her Spouse?

Secular institutes are one path to consecrated singleness.

I would prefer to put them before Jesus Hostia; have them wear both the green and five-fold scapular with st Benedict medal and miraculous medal; weekly confession; and the sacrament of the sick until they subdue the SSA, then see where the Lord intends them to be.

Blessings,
Cloisters
 
This response from then-Bishop Niederauer to the 2005 Vatican document on homosexuality in the clergy might be helpful to the OP.

Bishop Niederauer Responds to Document
by Barbara Stinson Lee
Intermountain Catholic

Q. Questions about this issue have been addressed to this Vatican department from around the world. How is it that the Vatican chose to address the issue of homosexuality in the priesthood at this time?

A. If you read the newspapers or watch television, sexual orientation in general, and gay culture issues in particular, are much on people’s minds these days. Also, some who are seriously mistaken have named sexual orientation as the cause of the recent scandal regarding the sexual abuse of minors by priests.

Q. If a person is seeking to become a priest is answering a call from God, how do bishops determine if they are suited for the job?

A. A vocation to priesthood is a call from God to a unique identification with Christ the Priest through the Sacrament of Holy Orders. Priesthood is a vocation, not a job. It is meant to be life-long, and meant to engage and fulfill the whole human person.

This truth has many implications. One implication is the need for what this document calls “affective maturity,” meaning that all the loving and relating that a priest does must be centered in Christ and consistent with the priest’s commitment to Christ and the Church. This kind of single-heartedness does not allow for a relationship in any priest’s life that would weaken his commitment to Christ and his Church.

Another implication of this affective maturity is that every celibate priest needs to be free to relate in a warm, human way to the men, women, and children to whom he ministers, in a manner that is genuine and still consistent with his commitment to Christ the Priest.

Q. That’s all fine and good, but can a man who is homosexual be an effective priest?

A. If any priest has the affective maturity described above, and in the document, then with God’s grace, he can effectively minister as a priest.
What the Church, the bishop, and the seminary must determine in the course of a priestly candidate’s formation is whether the candidate has the gifts of affective maturity, has made them his own, and is living them out faithfully.

Q. Why does the document express concern about someone who supports the “gay culture?”

A. Any Catholic priest’s identity must be centered in Christ the Priest. Thus, a priest cannot think of himself or present himself as mainly something else: a Democrat, a Republican, an American, a Frenchman, or as someone who has a particular sexual orientation. As important as sexual orientation may be in the structure of human personality, the priest must be principally “of Christ.” In addition, it would be inconsistent for the priest and confusing for the Catholic faithful if a priest differs from the Church in any of its moral teachings.

Q. What are other concerns for which a bishop or a seminary might deem a man inappropriate for the priesthood?

A. Affective maturity is just one of many elements of which bishops, seminaries, and spiritual advisors are cognizant when they consider a man as a candidate for the priesthood. Others include: Does he possess the ability to provide spiritual leadership and example? Can he develop the pastoral skills needed to work with and serve people? Is he able to master the studies? Does he possess sufficient relational skills to communicate effectively with a variety of people? Does he exhibit patterns of addictive behavior?
 
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