Oh but sir, I am only one of the many secretly hiding in these forums. Rest assured, we are here… and we are many. Afufufufufufu… >BD
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Well before I put on my otaku-hat…
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Level of maturity is definitely a factor when it comes suggesting titles. However, what most parents and teachers (as well as Ed here) fail to grasp is that it is in fact, due part to misconceptions. There are still many who are under the false delusion that a medium should only be child-friendly or family friendly because they say it is. Mind you, I generally HATE family-friendly stuff. Much of the Disney classics have struggled to pull this off in my eyes (and it’s not always successful). The thing I like about anime is that it can be mature enough to cast off such restraints and just show things as they are. It doesn’t matter whether it’s the hard life of a hired killer in some supernatural magician’s war or the awkward life of a school boy who suddenly has girls crushing on him left and right. It at least blatantly screams out “Not for teh childrenz!”
It’s good that your nephew’s mother has gotten over that phase. However, it just doesn’t stop there. To a more mature mind, even the naughty stuff is mixed with something with value. I know several titles that have their ecchi moments but that is not enough for me to turn my nose and say “Shameless!” (like a certain character I know).
Finally, I would just like to say that even the really awful stuff have given me something to reflect upon. Like porn, hentai and yaoi have their cliches. Such cliches indicate the sheer mindlessness of such elements. I find it ridiculous and hilarious really.